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Christmas Tree Memories - December 10, 2010

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When I was growing up my family didn't have money for a Christmas tree. However, we had a tree each and every year. I don't know where a few of them came from, and I don't know how my mom managed to make sure we had a tree. Our Christmas trees were always a surprise and beautiful to us.

In the 60's people were getting into a lot of flash. Silver trees for Christmas. I shudder to think about it now. But, when I was 10 years old that is what our tree was. It was an aluminum tree with a color wheel of the basic colors. The wheel plugged in and turned so that a different color shined on the tree. Sounds hideous right? To me that tree was the best ever, remember that is a 10 year old's taste. It was a modern tree. Oh how beauteous that tree was!

I remember one year mom told us that there would not be a tree because she just could not afford one. No way, no how, period. There wouldn't be many gifts that year either. That year we walked to church for midnight mass as was our tradition. We loved the magic of mass at midnight and a quietly falling snow. We could feel the love as our Savior was born in to this world. That year when we got home there in our living room was a beautifully decorated tree with presents underneath it. My mom to her dying day denied knowing where the tree or the gifts came from. Back then we didn't lock our doors so it could have been anyone leaving us this wondrous gift. Ours neighbors were like that.

One year we had a Charlie Brown tree. We waited until the last moment to get a tree and all the really good ones had been chosen. The tree had brownish limbs on the bottom already and the needles fell of if the tree was moved too suddenly. The part that we put toward the room was not too bad. Fortunately we always put our tree in the corner so the bald part of the tree went there and no one knew but us that we had a poor left over tree. And we didn't care.

I picked us up a tree one time from a lot that was already closed. It was Christmas Eve and they had closed early. It was dark. I went into the business next door to pay for it and they told me that the people in charge of the trees were gone. I asked what I should do and it was recommended to me to take the tree and have a happy Christmas. I took the tree and the wheel stand.

A Christmas tree other than these already mentioned that stand out in my mind is the tree that came with food. It was about a week before Christmas. There was a knock at the front door, my mom answered it. There wasn't anyone there, but what was there was a big box of food and a wonderful tree. Again the work of generous neighbors or possible the church. That was a nice surprise.

Now days I still put up a tree, but none of my trees even come close to those of my childhood. It seems that every year was a surprise to what kind of tree we would be having. Would it be silver, or spindly, or full and beautiful? We really didn't care because we still had the love of each other and of the season.

Monday Mahem - December 6, 2010

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Welcome to Monday Mayhem.
Today our meme is based upon several reader's poll's including the current issue of InStyle Magazine. Have fun answering the prompts and be sure to visit the other participants.
Thanks for playing!

1. Do you RSVP to all of your invites over the holidays?

I don't get many invites. But yes I do RSVP because I would want the same courtesy shown me.

2. What's your best excuse for not attending a holiday function?

I guess I would just tell the truth and say I have no interest. Well , maybe I would soften it a bit, that sounded kind of harsh.

3. Have you ever had 'a little too much' of anything in front of your boss at a holiday celebration or done anything else that may come back at you to haunt you in the future ?

My boss and I are really good friends. She is actually my former boss from my last job which ended in 1991. However, we were friends even before I left the company. We often had "car trouble" at lunch and never made it back to work. It was easy for me to tell my boss,but she had to call her boss and tell him she wouldn't be back for the afternoon. We had great times. That was before I knew better and drank. I don't participate now.

4. How many cards do you send via 'snail mail' (regular mail)?

Maybe 5 or 6 to very special people.

5. How many cards do you send via email?

Three.

6.What is your exercise routine during the holiday season?

Same as during the year...not too much of anything.

7. What is your least favorite thing about the holiday season?

I love the decorating part of the season, but I feel the let down when I have to put it all away. One year some of the decorations stayed up until April because the shed was covered in snow and I could not get to it. That was kind of over doing it and I was ready for my house to be totally normal again.

8. Tell us what is your regifting policy?

I figure that once I give a gift what the recipient wants to do with it is their business. Give it away, throw it away, or anything , it isn't my concern because the item doesn't belong to me it is theirs to do with what they want. So yes, I would also regift.

9. Ever been the recipient of a re-gift?

I have no idea, but probably.

10. What is your basic 'fat outfit' to wear after you have been sampling too much of the holiday festivities?

Comfy clothes are the order for any time of the year when food is going to be served. And loose fitting tops.

Join us next week as we play the annoyances of the Holiday Season.

The name of the Blog says it All.

2010-12-03T18:16:00.000-08:00

It has been so long since I blogged about anything that I am going to do a little bit quick catch -up.

On October 1, 2010 after 45 years being a heavy smoker, I quit smoking. It has been 2 months now and I feel better than I ever imagined I could. I guess what they say is really true...that when the time is right the quitting is easy. I smoked my last cigarette the night of September 30 and never looked back. That is not to say I have not had a craving or two, but not bad enough to go buy any. Yea me!

I became mom to baby kitties in July. We ended up keeping 2 of them. It is like having 3 year old twins around. What one doesn't think of the other does. They are adorable and sweet and fun, and affectionate. The yellow is named Butter Bean and the gray one in Lentil.

Because I have the 2 rambunctious kittens in the house I am not doing up the Christmas decorations like I normally do. But, I have to do some decorating. I have been haunting the thrift stores lately looking for additions to what I already have, that which will make a new and different arrangement on top of the entertainment center. I will post a picture when I get something figured out.

Every winter I wonder why I put myself through another Minnesota winter. I really don't like the cold, and I loath snow. We have already had winter for a month now and I am crying for April. We had a snow storm over Thanksgiving weekend, one last weekend, and another one is blowing in tonight. We have roughly 20 inches of the ugly white stuff on the ground already.

This is what I did yesterday. Can you guess?

I think you all are now up to date with life in my world.
I would like to post more often. Everyday I find myself thinking, "Oh that would be a good blog post." But do I post? Not so much.

Sunday Stealing - November 7, 2010

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< style="font-style: italic; ">We do sometimes edit the original meme, usually to make it more relevant to our global players, to challenge our players, sometimes to select that meme's best questions, or simply to make it less repetitive from either this new meme or recently asked questions from a prior featured meme. Let's go

1. What do you consider your hometown to be?
The town where I grew up and went to school. It is a suburb of Minneapolis, but it has a small town feel to it. Even today. I would still feel safe walking there at night.

2. What’s the hardest part of your average day?

Deciding what to make for dinner. I am bored with everything that easily comes to mind. Anyone with new recipe ideas?

3. The easiest? Why?
Getting up in the morning. I love the early part of the day. It is full of possibilities. With my first cup of coffee I spend my time reading in my Bible each morning. It is nice to have this as my quiet time with God.

4. What beverage do you reach for to quench your thirst?
Cold, cold Water. If I am really really thirsty I want a small amount of pop. Or sweet tea.

5. What is one not-so-secret goal you have for your life? I’ll let you keep your secret ones to yourself.
There are two goals into one (sort of), I want to go back to San Fransisco and spend some quality time there, and when I leave there I want to go to Maine and spend time there too.

6. What physical pain do you fear most? For example, I’m trying to decide how bad my jaw pain needs to get before I risk a potential needle from my dentist. So, for me, throbbing is preferable to jabbing.
It will have to be either the lower back pain I get when I stand for more than 10 minutes or the pain I get in my hands and left arm when I have done too much crocheting. Either one limits me on what I can do.

7. Where do you find solace?
In the morning with my Bible. Or with my cats on my lap.

8. What makes you the saddest when you read/see the news?
I hate to see the abuse/neglect (isn't neglect really abuse?) of children. It makes my blood boil when I see what people do to the precious gift that they have been given.

9. What do you eat for a favorite snack?
Cookies. Chocolate. Chocolate cookies would be divine.

10. What movie could you/would you watch more than two or three times and still enjoy just as much as the first time?
For a newer movie it would be "Sahara" with Matthew McConaughey and Steve Zahn. It is a fun movie to watch. I could watch The Sound of Music over and over. And do. My all time favorite movie is "Now Voyager".

11. What boy/girl first made you cry?
Oh my! I am not sure I can remember back that far. But I would guess it was 9th grade because I was the new kid in the school.

12. What brand of coffee/tea do you drink most often?
If I have to I drink Folger's Breakfast Blend. I prefer McGarvey coffee, but is hard to find here. I have to go to the city to buy it.

13. Dig in the dirt with or without garden gloves?
EWWW. Do I really have to put my hands in dirt? I don't like my hands and nails to get dirty. If I have to dig in dirt I will take 3 pairs of gloves please.

14. James Taylor or Carly Simon?
James Taylor all the way.

Thank you for playing this week on Sunday Stealing! Please leave a comment or link when you have posted. Feel free to stop back and visit other player’s posts. Have a great week. See you next Sunday!

Saying good-bye to one and Welcome to two.

2010-09-21T18:42:00.000-07:00

I have not posted this summer. It has been a summer of mixed emotions. Many things have happened that have given me worry and heartache. I am not going to write about all of them, but I will mention 2 right now.

I mentioned in a post about my loving boy cat,Randy, packing his little bag and leaving home. He has returned, but not in the same condition as he left. He doesn't seem to remember us. It is like he wants to remember, and yet he is aloof and withdrawn. So while we thankful to see him again, healthy and in one piece we are a bit confused as to what happened to him while he was travelling.

I had to say good-bye and farewell to my big ol' Tubby cat. He was 12 and weighed about 20 pounds. I don't know why he went to the Rainbow Bridge. He was fine on Sunday. His favorite neighbor came for a visit, and he jumped right up into her lap. He loved her so much. He liked to stick his nose up the sleeve of her shirt, right up to her arm pit. That was Sunday. Monday he was fine. Tuesday good. Wednesday morning he was in a coma. He passed over that afternoon.

I help him in my arms all day. Praying for a different outcome than the one I knew was coming. He took one last deep breath, I looked into his eyes and could tell he was gone. He was the best.

He is truly missed.

On May 25 one of the feral cats had babies. I knew where she was hiding her babies, but left them alone. The mommies are really protective as you can imagine. On July 12 I put food out for the ferals and saw her come to eat. That was at 7:15 AM, at 8:00 AM my husband found her dead in the road. There wasn't any blood on her, no broken bones, she looked as if she had just went to sleep in the road.

I went and got her babies. There were 3 of them. I called the vet and asked what to do. He gave me a recipe for milk replacement,and instructions to feed them every 2 hours. So began my sojourn into mothering 3 orphans. There were quite a few sleepless nights. The poor little dears just didn't know what to make of this strange looking mommy.

We knew we had to find homes for them, and one did go to my cousin. This was before Tub died. Even without talking about it the other two were here to stay. They had made this their home and into our hearts. The little Yellow one is named Butter Bean and the grey one we kept is Lentil.

I still miss Tub, and my heart is sore, but these little imps have helped to ease the hurt.

That is all I will write about them tonight, but one of the days soon I would like to tell you about Lentil's brave and miraculous fight of his life. I will have more pictures to post also.

Thanks for stopping by, I hope to be posting more often now that my life has settled down some.

Random Dozen - September 15, 2010

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1. Do you do garage sales? If so, tell me about one great find. If not, tell me why not.

Yes, I love to garage sale. The best find I ever got was a mink coat. I got it and a bunch of other things for $10.00. Yes you read that right $10.00. I wore that coat for years. It was beautiful. The pelts were a little worn but still in really good condition.
2. Name the last thing you fixed.

I don't really fix anything. I don't know how. I mean I can't even pound in a nail so that it stays in the wall. My husband is the mender, I can't sew. I can't even sew on buttons that will stay put.
3. Name your A) Favorite item of makeup OR B) Favorite tool

Favorite make up item is mascara. I can't leave home without it in place. My favorite tool, since I don't fix things is my bronzing powder and puffy brush.
4. Which room in your home needs organizing more than any other?

My bedroom. It is the household catch all. I think I saw tax statements from 1986 the other day. Seriously, it is bad.
5. Which room could use re-decorating?

As bad as the bedroom is, I would have to say the kitchen needs redecorating the most. I have a 1970 avocado green stove. The floor is kind of avocado green with yellow and is peeling in most places. The cupboards are nasty fake wood brown, and the sinks are the same avocado green.
6. Share something unique about your town.

On September 1, 1894 a fire swept through the town. It burned 420 square miles. It is now referred to as "The Great Hinckley Fire." It is listed in Wiki-pedia if you are interested. There were some amazing survival skills demonstrated that day.
7. If you could send a one-sentence message to your great-grandchild, what would it be?

I love you even now, I wish you everything in life that is good, and chocolate makes everything all better.
8. Do you Facebook?

Yes, I do. I don't write a lot. I play a lot of games. I share with family and I talk (IM).
9. Describe your favorite shoes.

My first pair of Birkenstocks. I love them. I have several pairs but keep the old ones by the door for a quick slip on. I even have Birkenstock shoes. That way I can wear them all year long.
10. Do you listen to more talk radio or more music radio? What kind of station is it?

No talk radio for me. If I can't get the local country station then I listen to the oldies station from the city.
11. How far would you travel for a really good (favorite) meal?

Well, I am 22 miles from town so at least that far.
12. If you were totally honest with yourself (and us) what should you probably be doing right now instead of blogging?

This time of night is just for me. I can do whatever I want and I choose to blog. The day is for work and stuff, but not the nights.

Random Dozen - September 8, 2020

2010-09-08T17:18:00.000-07:00

It has been a long time since I posted anything. For any of you who were/are faithful followers I am sorry. It has been a weird summer. I will try to post more about that in the days to come, but for now I am doing Random Dozen.

1. Describe the best sandwich in the world, according to you.

This is by far THE best sandwich. You can use any kind of bread (except white), Hellman's Mayo ( or whatever is the best in your part of the country), hard salami, colby cheese, lettuce, and sliced tomato. Oh my do I have a craving now.
2. Which inspires you more: a good conversation, a song, a book or movie?

Oh by far a good conversation. So much more to be gained by conversing. You can share ideas, opinions, goals. You might even learn a thing or two.
3. What is your favorite board game?

Is backgammon considered a board game? I love backgammon. If it is not then I guess Scrabble.
4. As you grow older, are you more or less patient with small children?

As a rule I don't like children. I mean I love my son and those children that are in my life, but other kids? Naw, I don't like them. So I have less patience.
5. Name one item you never let yourself run out of.

Toothpaste. I can not even imagine starting my day without a clean mouth. EWWW!
6. Do you agree with Tennyson's assertion, "'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?"

Yes. How could a person survive in this world not having experienced love. Even if that love didn't work out for the best you would still have known the heights of happiness.
7. Name one national treasure or monument that you have visited.

I don't know if this counts as a national treasure, but I like to say that I have walked across the Mississippi River. We have the head waters of the Mississippi in Minnesota located in the Bemidji Forest. It is a beautiful place full of walking trails and the wonderful head waters. It even boasts to having the tallest pine tree on record.
8. Which is more painful, to be disappointed in someone else or to be disappointed in yourself?

To be disappointed in myself, because only I can control what I do.
9. What makes your kitchen uniquely yours?

The mess? No really it would be the table cloth I embroidered for my table and a bowl of things on the table.
10. Are you a crafty person?

I like to think I am. I can knit, crochet, embroider, scrapbook, cook, but none of those things with the exception of cooking very expertly.
11. What is your favorite traditional picnic or bbq (cookout) food?

If it is BBQ at home it is hamburgers, potato salad, pickles and pie.
12. Name one leisurely activity you enjoyed over Labor Day Weekend.

I went garage saling Saturday. I left at 7:20 am and got back home at 3:30 pm. I had a great very relaxing day finding treasures everywhere.

2010-05-31T17:22:00.000-07:00

Outside my window....It has been a beautiful Spring day. The perfect weather for a picnic. Sunshine, light breeze, low 70s, low humidity.

I am thinking....that tomorrow I will walk around the woods and take some Spring pictures to post. I need to do it soon before they become Summer pictures. The woods changes so quickly.

I am thankful.....for my friend Vivian. She came and drove for me after my last eye surgery. She will be here for the next eye too. This is for scar tissue that has formed on the new lens they put in after the cataract surgery.

I am wearing.....navy blue capris, royal blue top, socks and slippers.

I am hearing.....a Sherlock Holmes program my husband has taped from WPT.

I am creating.....an embroidered table cloth.

I am going.....to the library later this week and to the thrift store.

I am reading.....nothing right now...hence the trip to the library.

I am praying.....for a friend who has to have hip replacement surgery on Wednesday.

I am remembering.....My uncles, cousins, and father who all served in the military. They are gone from me now, but I look forward to seeing them again one day.

I am hoping.....that my gray cat Randy comes home. He has been missing since last Thursday. He is so sweet and loving. I miss him.

On my mind.....my son. And what he is going to do with his future. I think he is undecided and I can't help him with the decisions. It's hard to let them go.

Noticing that... that the blackberry bushes have lots and lots of flowers this year. I hope that means we will have a large crop of berries come August.

Pondering these words.....but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. Joshua 24:15

I am wondering how to do that when I am the only one in the house who believes.

From the kitchen.....venison stew tomorrow, pork ribs and sour kraut with potatoes and carrots later this week, and I need to make some bread dough.

Around the house....clean clothes that need to be put away, a living room floor that needs to be vacuumed, and dusty furniture.

One of my favorite things.....the missing kitty's name is Randy. If anyone sees him please tell him his mama is worried about him.

A few plans for the rest of the week.....an eye appointment to check on the eye that just had surgery and to schedule the next eye. Trip to library, yarn store, and thrift store.

Six Word Saturday - May 29, 2010

2010-05-29T18:59:00.000-07:00

The boy is gone 3 days.

He went missing on Thursday. I keep telling the others to go find him but they look at me like I am crazy. I am worried about him because he thinks everything is a friend. How wrong he could be!

Sunday Stealing - May 30, 2010

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Sunday Stealing: The Just Because Meme

1. Make a list of 5 things you can see without getting up.
The woods, my husband, a cat, birds outside the window, a to be read reading list.

2. How do you style your hair? How often do you cut it?
It is very short. I have it cut about every 3 months, but i always seem to cut it myself between professional cuts. My hairdresser says that I add texture.

3. What are you wearing now?
A robe

4. What's your occupation? Do you like it?
Housewife. Most of the time

5. When was the last time that you took a nap? Was there a special reason?
I fell asleep reading Friday morning. I guess the reason was because I was tired?

6. Who was the last person you hugged romantically?
My husband

8. What was the last full meal that you ate?
Pork, pasta, green vegetable, and applesauce.

9. What was the last email that you received?
Blog notification

10. What one website do you always visit when you go online?
Blogger and FB

11. What was the last significant thing you bought?
Do groceries count?

12. What musical artist did you not get at first, but then became a fan?
Moby or Flogging Molly

13. What do you think about before you go to bed last night?
Plans for my day today.

14. What was the last CD you bought?
A Harry Conick Jr. Christmas CD

15. What is your favorite weather, and why? What's the weather like today?
Sunny, 68, low humidity, mild breeze. Lovely like that. Today is hot...86 and muggy.

16. If you could have a special artistic talent, what would it be?
I would love to be able to sing well. I sing now loudly but not well.

17. Did you watch the Idol 9 finale? If yes, what are your thoughts?
I have never ever watched any Idol.

18. What's something you'd like to say to someone right now?
What? Are you out of your mind??

19. Any special plans for this (holiday in the States) weekend?
None, sad to say.

20. Besides your current S/O, who was the last person that you loved romantically?

It was a long, long time ago. I have been married almost 20 years.

Random Dozen - May 26, 2010

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1. Would you rather host party or simply attend a party?
I think going to a party. Then I can go home when I want and not worry about the guests. I don't have to wait for them all to be ready to go home.
2. Tell us about the most memorable party you've been to.
My cousin's wedding reception. It is where I met my husband.
3. What is one thing you hope for in the after-life?
I hope to hear, "Well done good, and faithful servant."
4. What do you enjoy most about sunshine?
The lightness it brings to the day.
5. When you attend a bridal/baby shower, do you prefer to bring your own gift or chip in with others to buy a larger gift?
I prefer to bring my own gift. I like to shop. I like to get creative in my gift giving. I like to be independent.
6. Would you rather have a FREE week of having your house cleaned or all of your meals cooked for you and your family?
A free week of housecleaning works for me. That would mean the dishes would be cleaned and the kitchen cleaned which is the worst part of cooking anyway.
7. What song describes your mood today?
A song about arguing would fit today. That is what I have done most of today with the husband.
8. What is something you received for your own bridal shower/wedding that you still own or use? (If you are not married, feel free to sub a gift you received a long time ago.)
I can't answer this question. I didn't have nay bridal showers. At work I was the one who planned those things, and I couldn't very well plan my own. At home I don't know why I didn't have any.
9. Your favorite flavor of ice cream is?
Chocolate anything.
10. When was the last time you felt "tested?"
Today during the 3 hour long argument. The D word was said.
11. "[Fill in the blank] is a food that once I start eating I find really hard to stop."
Potato chips are a food that once I start eating I find really hard to stop. Or chocolate cookies.

12. "-----" is the best motivation.

Fear is the best motivation.

Random Thoughts - May 19, 2010

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1. What is one really fast, know-by-heart "go-to" meal to fix in a pinch?

Tacos or Burritos. Always easy, always fast.
2. What is one item you won't leave home without. (Purse and license do not count.)

My Sunglasses. Since cataract surgery it seems my eyes are even more sensitive to the brightness of the sun.
3. Where is one place you never tire of visiting?

I haven't been there is a very long time, but it would be the Minneapolis Art Institute and Walker Art Center.
4. Share one factoid of your family's history.

My grandparents both came from Germany, but didn't know each other when they came here.
5. Complete this sentence: "Once upon a time I ...."

Once upon a time I wanted to be a Special Ed teacher.
6. If you could win a one year's supply of anything, what would it be?

HMMM. Maybe chocolate? Or a year's worth of waxing at the salon. Or haircuts. Or maid service.
7. "One quirky thing you may not know about me is ...."

One quirky thing you may not know about me is I gave up knitting because I hate to purl. I mean I hate to purl. I started to crochet instead.
8. You have one dollar in your pocket. What will you buy?

One pack of gum and a stamp. A pack of gum will last longer than a chocolate bar and you can always use a stamp.
9. "One thing that always makes me laugh is ...."

One thing that always makes me laugh is watching the cats play.
10. What is one thing you could do today to help yourself reach a personal goal?

Quit smoking.
11. What is one thing you could do today to bless someone else?

I prayed for my son and friend Vivian (from the Volvo post) when they were driving through horrible traffic to my home.
12. What is one thing you're looking forward to soon?

Taking the cover off the air conditioner tomorrow and turning it on. It got up to 83 in the house today.

Cute and Naughty

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How can something this cute....even if she is blurry, she is very cute.

Be so naughty? She loves my car.

She is just about 1 year old this month. Of course we don't know the exact date because her mommy kept her and her litter mates well hidden until they were about 8 weeks old. Out the three kitties, she is the only one who is friendly towards us.

Manic Monday - May 16, 2010

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Welcome to Monday Mayhem.

This week's meme is called "What are you thinking"?
For each scenario, give your interpretation of what the person may have been thinking.
Have fun!

1. The person with 40 items in the 12 items or less line.

, "I am so so busy. I just know that I am the busiest person in the whole entire world. Not only that I am most special in everything that I do. I know that the 12 item rule does not apply to me. Who would deny my the fast lane? Silly me. No one would!"

2. The driver who is smoking and talking on a cell phone while driving.

" Look at me I am multi-talented. I can talk, smoke, and drive all at the same time. I don't need to flick my ash or even put the cigarette out while I drive because I will just throw it out the window. I don't need my hands to be free to hang onto the steering wheel because I am that most talented person. I can steer with my knee."

3. The father with 8 children and a TV show who cheats on his wife...over and over again...

"I have heard the phrase sex addiction. I am not a sex addict. I am a cheating addict. "

4. Facebook and their security features.
"If security is necessary, we have enough features to make even the most paranoid person feel secure."

5. Heidi Montag
"I love myself. And it shows."

6. People who attempt to sell Viagra via spam comments.

"To quote P.T. Barnum, "There is a sucker born every minute."

7. Those wonderful shoppers who catch up on their phone calls while shopping.

"Why are all these people looking at me?" I am speaking as quietly as I can. If they don't want to know about Jasen's problem they should not listen in on a private conversation."

8.People who find themselves on the People of Walmart website.

"Darn I look good ....today"

Britney Spears let herself go…….again.

Kentucky (photo from People of Walmart.com)

9. People who just can be stupid....

"I didn't see a weight restriction for this bridge. What gives?"

From Whitetrashrepairs.com

10. People with multiple-multiple piercings.

" I think I have problem. I wonder if there is a 12 step program for people like me."

11. Blog Stalkers
"I am such a chicken. I should really take my talent out into the real world and do this for a living." "I could teach a class."

12. In-laws who are controlling or bossie.

"She just doesn't understand my son. She doesn't know that he needs to have his tidy whiteys ironed. If she didn't work outside the home she would have time. She is not the one for him. I will have to see what I can do to get him to change his mind about her." I am such a good mom"

13. People who use or wear items and then attempt to return them.

"Oh my!" "What will I do now?" "I knew grape juice left a stain. How can I return this now?" " I should never have agreed to hold that baby." "Maybe if I dye the entire gown purple they will never know that It has been worn.' "Yep that's what I will do. And if they question it I will make such a scene that they will pay me just to get me out of the store." "I'm so clever."

14. You share one with us :)

"Today would be my daughter's birthday. She would be 35. I can not tell anyone because what would they think. They would hate me and turn their backs on me. They would not understand that I loved that girl more than life itself, that I didn't want to do what I did, but that I had no other choice." It is a choice I made that I must live with forever and a day."

Garage Sale Season

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I don't know about you but during the winter months I anxiously await Spring. Not just for the warmer temperatures and the lovely flowers, but because it is the start of GARAGE SALE SEASON!!

I would like to take this opportunity to share my vast experience with all of you. I have been garage saling for over 40 years. I was doing this long before any of my friends realized what a gold mine was to be had for a paltry few dollars. Today I am going to discuss going to the garage sale, what to expect, what to look for, how to ask for help or a better deal. Soon I will discuss with you how to hold a successful sale yourself.

I get breathless just thinking about the treasures that await me around the next corner.

I look in the paper each Saturday to plan my garage sale excursion for the following weekend. When there are a lot listed for one general area I take a highlighter and mark my path. I also make a big red X through any sales that do not appeal to me. I mean because really a girl must have a plan when it comes to garage saling.

The first thing you have to do even before you read the ads is to figure out what you are looking for. If you can think it, want, dream, wear, read, cook with it, you can bet it can be found at a garage sale. You need to make this decision before the ad reading because it will aid you in making a list of priority sales.

For the sake of this tutorial we are going to minimize what it is I am looking for. Normally I have a long list of things that I am dreaming of taking home with me, but for this I am choosing to need a footstool, hassock, or ottoman. I know they are all the same thing but the ads may call this item by any of those names. So that is the first thing. Know the name that your item may be called. You don't want to miss the perfect sale because you didn't know that a footstool was also called a hassock.

OK, now for the ads. I recommend several different colored highlighters. Depending on how many ads there are I use either 3 or 4 different colors. One color for sales that match your criteria exactly, another for almost a match and another for maybe. Once you have figured out which sales match perfectly plot your travel course. You know your home as of course the start point and work your way out from there. [I wish I had a map to show you what I mean. ] Now you need to number your sales. You need to do this because it will tell you at a glance where you are going next. There isn't any point is worrying about the sales you aren't going to go to so just put them out of your mind. As you are driving to the sales on your color coded list you will most assuredly find sales that were not in the paper. Stop if you want, but keep in mind that the longer it takes you to get to the next one on your list the more likely it is that your perfect item will be already sold when you get there.

At a sale if you are looking at something electric, ask if they will plug it in for you. You want to know if it works. I have yet to be told no.

When you do find the item of your dreams don't be afraid to haggle with the seller. If the seller is having a garage sale with the idea of clearing out and making room for what ever they should be willing to come down in their price. If not well then it is their loss for your not buying it and they may be stuck putting it in the thrift store box.

I always ask if they will take half of their asking price. Sometimes they say no, sometimes they come back with a counter offer. One thing you should decide is what is the MOST you will pay for it. If you will pay full price, ask for a better deal anyway, but if you really want them to come down then be prepared to put the item back.

One time I had a lovely set of bath towels, a couple of pieces of crystal stemware, a picture frame, some clothes, and a mink coat. Yes, a mink coat! It was old, but the pelts were in good shape. Anyway, I asked if they would take $10.00 for all of it. They hemmed and hawed, but them agreed to $12.00. If I had not asked the whole stack would have been closer to $30.00. That's the rule don't be afraid to ask.

Take some refreshments in a cooler with you. It will save you money and time. And put some snacks in the cooler also.You won't have to stop somewhere along the way.

Armed with knowledge of what you are looking for, a good idea of where you are going, the savvy to ask questions, and haggle for your price, you should be ready to have a great time out doing the garage sale circuit.

I wish you good luck on your travels and with your quest for the next great garage sale find.

P.S. When you get to a sale make sure to put the car in park and turn the motor off before exiting the car. It works best this way. One time I was so excited to be at a sale, after I parked the car I just jumped out. My SIL screamed at me to STOP! I had not put the car in park or turned it off. I shudder to think what could have happened. I might have missed out on some real treasure if i had hit another car.

Random Dozen - May 12, 2010

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1. Please share one memory of your high school graduation. Pics would be great!

Are we talking the ceremony or the parties afterward? I have one of each. Before the ceremony I was worried about forgetting to turn my tassel. My last name was at the end of the alphabet, at the end of 968 students before me. I kept saying to myself turn the tassel, turn the tassel. Well, I remembered to turn the tassel, but then I fell down the steps as I waved to the crowd. I left the city to go to a party way out in the country on a lake. Right in the middle of the party, when things were really starting to rock, we were informed that a tornado was sighted just across the lake from us. At that very moment the power went out. Here were about 50 kids all jittery, in the dark, with what we thought was a tornado bearing down on us. Turns out the parents of the kids whose house we were at thought they were playing a good joke. That is until we girls (of course) became hysterical.
2. What is one "emergency use" item you keep in your vehicle at all times?

I always always carry blankets. Usually two but sometimes three. I figure in the winter I might need them for extra warmth and in the summer someone injured in an accident might have need of one.
3. In your region, do you celebrate graduation open houses? Addendum: (If so,) how many open houses/bridal showers/weddings are on your upcoming events calendar?

Yes, we have open houses for the graduate. I don't have any open houses, showers, or weddings to go to this summer.
4. Tell me one truth you believe about motherhood.

It is the hardest job ever, but also the most rewarding. And one that never ends.
5. What was the last thing you broke?

The ring fingernail on my left hand.
6. On average, how many pieces of junk mail do you receive daily?

Today I received 3 pieces of junk mail. I don't consider the catalogs I requested as part of that total. If they are then I received 6 pieces of junk mail today.
7. Do you like to shop by catalog?

It is almost the only way I shop for close and yarn. I bought practically all of my Christmas gifts from catalogs.
8. Is lawn maintenance at your house a "his job," a "her job" or "his/her job" or "that's why we have teenagers" job?

Totally a man's job. He won't teach my how to use the riding lawn mower so it has to be his job. I was trying to put in a new garden, which is totally woman's work, gardening that is, but I have had to stop because the problems I am having with my arms.
9. Which room would you like to redecorate in your home?

That would be my bedroom. I would like it to be a retreat, but right now it is a catch all for things we don't know where else to put them. I would like soft lighting and lighter colors. Lots of pillows.
10. Do you read a newspaper regularly, or do you read most of your news on line?

The only paper that I could get out where I live is a 10 page local paper that is really not worth the paper it is printed on. So I get my statewide news online from the paper n the city.
11. Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

As in Destiny? I don't know. I don't like to think that I am destined to make the mistakes that I do.
12. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing the right things.

Ten on the Tenth - May 10, 2010

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I have been trying to do a post about my mom since April 12, but never could make it a manageable post for readers. It was always too long. With being limited to 10 things about my mom I can finally tell you almost all about her.

1. My mom's name was Margaret. Her nephews called her Aunt Marge. One nephew and only this one was allowed to call her Maggie. If anyone dared to call her that other than this one nephew there was hell to pay (sort of).

2. My mom was a career woman long before she was a mom. This was practically unheard of in the 40s. She even transferred out of state with her job. She went into a new state knowing only her boss and his wife. The following picture is of her in her career woman days.

My mom wore a mink coat in her career days. She played golf (does a person play golf?), she went dancing, and was on several bowling teams. My mom once bowled a 300 game. That is a perfect game that many professional bowlers never get. It is kind of like the whole in one that golfers dream about. Even after my mom became a mom she continued to bowl, just not on so many leagues. Her average was something like 256.

3. In 1955 my mom became a mom (with me). This was a huge turning point in her life. One I have never been sure she didn't regret. She moved back to our home state and got married. It wasn't being a mom so much that I think she regretted but the marriage part of the whole equation. Her choice was not ideal. But she stuck it out as long as she could, about 15 years.

4. My mom could do the New York Times Sunday edition crossword puzzle in ink in under 3 hours. She took the Mensa test, passed, and was asked to join. She declined. She was a voracious reader. Her bookshelves were lined with the classics, with modern romance, Stephen King, and many biblical study reference books. She loved the opera. She loved classical music and Willie Nelson. My mom could type 65 words a minute on an old Remington typewriter and when her place of employment updated her with an electric she went up to 150 words per minute. Makes me wonder what she would do on a keyboard like we have now.

5. My mom was the most generous person I have ever known. She gave of herself and of her time. Even when she was just weeks from death she went to her volunteer job at the Courage Center. I don't know how she managed. She made the holidays special for the entire family. I mean entire family, brothers, aunts, cousins, everyone. One of my cousins has said that her heart was as big as she was.

6. My mom played the piano. One of my best childhood memories is of sitting on the piano bench with her and singing sill songs. She gave piano lessons to one of my cousins. He later went on to other piano teachers because my mom had taught him all she could. I think she probably didn't realize what talent she really had.

7. My mom was a teaser. She teased and teased and teased. Fortunately, she could take as good as she gave. She went every week to get her hair done at the beauty shop. When she would return home my husband would comment, "I thought you were getting your hair done." Her reply, "Go to hell." She would grin real big at him then. There was their weekly routine.

8. The following is the last picture taken of her. It was taken Christmas 1990. She went home to heaven in April 1991.

Yes, she is sticking her tongue out at me. I love this picture so much because that is who my mom was. She thumbed her nose at convention and had a career when women were having babies and she stuck her tongue out at anyone/thing that she felt like.

9. My mom loved cats. Growing up we always had cats, always plural. Yes this cat is sitting in a cupboard in the kitchen. My brother and me (is it and me or and I ? I can never remember) were not spoiled as kids because the cats got all the spoiling.

10. My mom loved to dress up. I mean all the way up as shown in this next photo.

That is me with her. The reason for the celebration was my uncles 70th birthday or maybe his 25th wedding anniversary. I can't remember. It was in the late 1970s. See the hair?

That is my mom. I miss her everyday. It seems like I should just be able to pick up the phone and give her a call. I wish I could.

Six Word Saturday - April 8, 2010

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Snow is May is not right.

Yep we had snow yesterday. It started snowing yesterday afternoon abut 2 and didn't stop until this morning. Fortunately, the ground has thawed so only 2 inches stayed on the ground. Most of that is gone now but still...It's not right. Even in Minneosta.

Random Dozen - April 5, 2010

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Random Dozen
April 5, 2010

1. What was the last thing about which you procrastinated?
I usually have company come in May so my Spring cleaning has never been an issue. I just have always gotten it finished early. However, the is year my company is not coming until July. I have not even started with Spring cleaning. And I am regretting it.
2. How long does it take you to fall asleep, and do you sleep through the night?
I usually fall asleep reading and wake up for a second when my husband turns out his light.
3. Which decade would you choose to exemplify your favorite fashion styles?
I still like the comfy style of the 70's. All except for the mini skirt and hot pants...my legs are not what they used to be. But I won't give up my Birkenstocks.
4. What is your personal best dish to feed a crowd?
Hands down it would be my chili served with popovers or corn bread. Cheese, onions, and sour cream on the side.
5. Are you an impulse shopper? What was the last thing you bought on impulse?
Oh my yes. I am a sucker for check out aisle cookbooks.
6. What is one wish you have for your own funeral?
For Josh Groban to sing. And no flowers. I figure that if people want me to have flowers they should give them to me when I am alive and can enjoy them. I don't want them when I am dead. My family has instructions to return any flowers that are sent.
7. If it's true that joy is in found in the simple things in life, what does your joy look like today?

8. What is your favorite type of bread?
I love Ezekiel raisin bread, but only rarely because it is so expensive. Otherwise Whole Wheat is fine with me.
9. What trait do you fear developing the most? (Laziness, greediness, grumpiness, etc.)
My husband is angry all the time. It is part of his illness. I am so afraid that it will start to rub off on me. I don't want to be angry all the time at the world.
10. What trait would you like most to develop?
Thriftiness. I spend way too much money on needless things. I try hard not too but I end up doing it anyway.
11. Which room in your house best reflects your personality? Why?
I wish I had a picture. We redid my son's room after he moved out. We painted it a very light yellow with white trim. I have a white storage cupboard in there, my Grandma's rocker, a bed, and bookshelves. There are blue and white accent pieces. A yellow and white quilt is on the bed. Right after we finished I commented that it looked like a cottage room. I love the freshness of this room. It is crisp and warm and inviting. I like to think I am inviting and warm. And I know I can be crisp at times.
12. How do you maintain balance in your life regarding, work, family, church, other organizations
and activities, and blogging?
I am the least busy woman you will ever meet. When making arrangements to meet someone for let's say lunch, I always let them name the date and time. I am always open. I have no commitments. So maintaining a balance is not a hard thing for me to do. I have no balance to maintain.

Ten Things Tuesday - May 4, 2010

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Kathy at Reflections by Kathy is hosting a Ten Things Tuesday.
Here is my list . I hope. It is 2:18 AM so I may lose count and get too many or lose count and not finish. If there is a long line of some letter or number you know my head has hit the keyboard as i fell asleep, finally.

Onto the list:

Ten Things Tuesday
Things About Spring I Like

The freshness of the air as it comes through my open windows. I can never wait for truly warm weather before opening my windows. I want that air right now. Just as the snow starts to melt. I like to air the house out and let Springtime in.
The birds when they return to the bird feeders. We have seasonal birds here. Birds like robins, red-breasted grosbeaks, orioles, and hummingbirds. I know it is Spring when the birds have returned. Not all of them are here yet but it has been a cooler than normal Spring start and I figure that they know more than I do about the weather.
The wild flowers coming up in the woods. The trillium and forget-me-nots are the first to bloom, The scent of the beautiful forget-me-nots is simply divine when it comes wafting in my open windows. I will post a picture of them later in the week when they really get into bloom.
Traipsing into the field to find the wild asparagus . This tastes so much better than store bought it is amazing. We love the store bought but this time of year the wild asparagus is a true feast provided for us.
Watching the animals making new homes. I was watching a squirrel today. He was housecleaning. He went into the hole in the tree and started throwing out old stuff that I guess was what made him comfy this winter. He was too far away to tell what exactly it was but there was a lot it being tossed out. After he finished that he scurried down the tree, was gone for a few minutes, and returned with a mouthful of something. He went into the hole and came back out a minute later and repeated the same process. This lasted for more than an hour. (I didn't have anything going on except to watch him build his 2010 home)
Watching and waiting for the trees to green up. It is a daily happening. You get up in the morning and the trees leaves are just so and later on they are maybe a bit bigger. This is so true after a rain. You can almost watch the greening up as it happens.
The transformation of the woods as Spring takes hold. The ground is no longer brown from all of last years leaves, it has started to also do it's greening up. The wild ferns are starting to show their stuff. They will be unfurling in the next couple of weeks. Once the ferns unfurl it seems like the woods comes totally alive and every where you look is green. It is hard to imagine but some of these ferns are almost 4 feet tall!
Even though the animals that frequent our yard in the warm months are wild and therefore dangerous I still like to have them come in for a visit. Well maybe the skunks can stay away. We had a raccoon in the other night at about 6:oo pm. He was fat and sassy. We have heard a report from the neighbor that there is a bear in the neighborhood so I guess we will be seeing him soon too. Scary but exciting and exhilarating all at the same time.
This is harder than I thought or maybe I am finally tired. Oh! The beginning of the garage sale season. We love to get in the car and just drive around looking for signs. We make a day of it. We take a thermos of coffee for in the morning. We stop for lunch most of the time. My husband takes his strong medication and can get in the car then and we always take extra in case he gets panicky being away from home so long. He is kind of stoned, well no kind of about it, he is flying high but this is the only way he can leave the house. But, oh how we love to go garage saling.
I love that the sun comes early. My bedroom faces east and the sun wakes me every morning when it comes in my window. It is the best way to wake up. I also like the fact that is stays light longer at the other end of the day. I like that my days last longer in the warm months.

OK that is my list and unfortunately I am more awake than before. No fair. Some nights are that way.
Thanks for stopping by,

Counting Your Blessings

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Counting Your Blessings

My best friend needs to be given a name. I asked her about this and she prefers not to have her real name mentioned. Her exact words were, "EEH I'd rather not be out there." So I need to come up with a new name for her. After reading this post maybe you can give me some ideas.

She has a very old Volvo. It probably has over 200,00 miles on it. She has been driving it for about 6 years. It was given, yes given to her family when they needed a vehicle. This car has been a blessing and a torment. Being old it has needed some occasional major repairs. However, the repairs were cheaper than a different car. She always felt very fortunate to have this car.

A couple of weeks ago she and two of her sons had to go out of town. They traveled in this car 95 miles in just one direction to their destination. Once there there was driving around to be done for the entire weekend. Then there was the return trip home, another 95 miles. I mention this because it becomes important later in the story.

The week after the out of town trip my friend, (name as yet unknown), had a busy week. She had to drive to the farm where she purchases the family's milk, eggs, and meat. That is a round trip of 120 miles. She also had to take her son to his classes at the college, total miles only about 40. There was a Boy Scout function that she had to attend with round trip mileage of about 20. There was church on Sunday, round trip of 75 miles. Plus she had the normal weekly shopping and what not things to do for a busy family of 6.

The car never gave any sign that it was ill or even that it was fading fast. She went out to go somewhere yesterday and it would not start. Not even a click. She called to tell me that she was without a car. I was so sad for her because she is such a good person and needs to be mobile.

But, we counted her blessing and decided that it was a good thing that the car had died. It was good because she had done all of that traveling and made it home, had been to the farm and grocery shopping and was home. The car waited until everything was taken care of and then died. No one was on the road and needed a tow. No one was stranded out of town and needed a tow. Everyone was home and safe.
I have always said that if my car has to die I would prefer to be at home when it does. My friend agrees.

We were grateful and praised God for giving her this gift. Yes, a gift of a broken car. I know strange but it is broken at HOME. We were thankful. We counted her blessings because of all the things she had been busy doing just days before it gave up the ghost. She had driven over 400 miles in the week before and it waited til she was at home to give it up.

Yes counting your blessing can sound strange when something bad has happened, but there is always the bright side. A broken car at home is much, much better than somewhere on the highway.

Thanks for stopping by.

Random Dozen - April 28, 2010

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Random Dozen
April 28, 2010

1. Have you ever been so lost that you were really afraid?
If you know anything about the Twin Cities area,you know that people from Minneapolis don't go to St.Paul and vice versa. I don't have a passport to St. Paul and I don't even know what language they speak across the river from where I used to live. Anyway, yes I have been so lost that I was afraid, very afraid. I was in downtown St. Paul, almost out of gas, during rush hour on a Friday evening, and didn't know how I got there or how to get home. This was way before cell phones. I was scared, terrified that I was going to run out of gas there. I cried. My prayers were answered and I made it back to Minneapolis before running out of gas. A nasty experience.
2. Have you ever been to an island?
There was a place I used to go to in Canada, we had to take a boat to an island to get our food supply. There wasn't any electricity where we stayed and the food was kept on this island buried under ground.
3. Are you more of a thinker or feeler?
I am a thinking feeler. I have to think about what I am feeling and why. I can't just feel I have to know why.
4. Do you tend to see issues or situations in life as black and white or shades of gray?
I don't know. I mean I know right from wrong and that would be black or white. But sometimes things seem gray. See? I am confused.
5. If you were stuck on an island, what book would you hope to have with you (Let's pretend the Bible is already there, so you can't say that.)
Funny to get island questions a day after watching Castaway.
I would like to have the Jan Karon series about Father Tim with me. It is light hearted and pure and would give me hope.
6. What are you most afraid of?
I am afraid of a lingering illness that would be hard on my son. Also heights, and bugs.
7. Would you rather lose all of your old memories or never be able to make new ones?
I would rather make new memories. Imagine new surprises, new friends, new places, new foods,new books.
8. Pretend I'm looking at a scrapbook page about you. There are three spaces for you to drop in individual pictures. What are those pictures of, and why did you select them?
One picture would be of Minneapolis with me standing on Nicollet Mall by Mary Tyler Moore, because I love Minneapolis especially the downtown area. Second picture would be of me standing in my woods because I love my woods. The third would be of me with all of my family because my family means everything to me.
9. If you were re-doing your wedding, what would you do differently? (If you're single, tell me one thing you would do if you were planning a wedding OR huge party.)
First off I would be married in a church by a minister or priest. I would have a wedding cake which I didn't have in the real one. I would also like to have a wedding shower. And I would wear a different type dress, not a real wedding dress just different than the suit I wore. I'd have flowers too.
10. Tell me one thing you know/believe about forgiveness.
It has to be complete and sincere.
11. You're waiting in a doctor's office. What is your favorite way to pass that time?
Sometimes I try and guess who the person's doctor is and why they are being seen and if they are contagious.
12. If there were a clone of you in a parallel universe what is one way you hope she/he would be the same as you and one way you hope she/he would be better?
I would hope that this other woman would be a better person. Would be more caring and less selfish. That she would be a better knitter.

Friend Makin' Monday - April 26, 2010

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Friend Makin' Monday
April 26, 2010

The question for this week is:

List 5 things (aside from the obvious) that you love.

1. My cats - Picute 1 is Ozzy and Little Kitty, Picture 2 is Tubby

2. Bald Eagles

3. The first signs of Spring - the hint of green as the trees start to green up. These poppils across the road from us are the first to show signs.

4. Chocolate - Any kind, type, flavor, etc.

5. Reading - Almost any kind, type, etc.

(I was going to say Jesus but thought maybe that would be considered one of the obvious.)

Old Friends

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I had lunch with an old friend today. We met when we were still in high school, almost 40years ago. We lost touch right after high school and ran into each when we both started working for the same company. Eventually, she became my boss.
While she was my boss we became friends again. We had such a high regard and respect for each other that neither of us took advantage of the friendship. We had a unique relationship. I think we were the envy of our department. We got along so well and knew what the other was practically thinking. She knew that she could depend on me to do whatever needed to be done and I knew that she would never ask me if she wouldn't do it herself. We timed our vacations so that we were never both gone from the department at the same time. I was her unofficial assistant.
I quit working 19 years ago. We live 2 hours away from each other. We stay in touch through email and twice a year we get together for a lunch. We had our Spring lunch today. We meet at the casino near my home. No, not to gamble, neither one of us believe in that. We meet there because they have great food and we can sit and chat for 4 hours and not be disturbed.
When we get together it is as if we had just talked the day before. It feels as if we are starting in the middle of a conversation. There are no pauses in the conversation (except when our mouths are full), we just move from one topic to the next. The 4 hours we are together goes by so quickly that we are always surprised our time has come to an end.
She is not my best friend and I doubt that I am hers. However, she knows things about me that no one else on earth does. And the same is true about her.
I don't make friends easily. I am cautious my nature in that regard. I make acquaintances . That is why I remain friends with someone a long, long time. I treasure them. I try to nurture the friendship. I try to give the friend the best of me that I can give to them.
We only just said bye for now a few hours ago and already I am looking forward to our fall lunch.
So my message after this bit of a ramble is simply this:

Treasure your friends. Hold them close in your heart. You won't regret it.

Random Dozen - April 21, 2010

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Random Dozen
April 21, 2010

1. Ever had any run-ins with the "library police?"
I am still having a run in with them. It has been going on for 17 years. They say I didn't return 3 books, I say I did. They won't let me have a library card.
2. Do you have a special organizational plan and place for wrapping paper, gift bags, etc., or do you just purchase whatever you need as you give gifts?
I have a place. It is on the top shelf of a sort of closet. Actually a catch all cubby hole. Closet gives it way too much dignity.
3. Have you ever been in (first-hand witness) a natural disaster?
Mine isn't as bad as say an earth quake but for me it was something I don't want to live through. But the story is so long I think that come July it will become a post.
4. What's your favorite Barry Manilow song?
It is either Copacabana or Weekend in New England.
5. What's the best costume you've ever worn?
About a week after I had been in a bad car crash I went as an accident victim. Some of the costume was real some was make-up but I won first place.
6. Which do you use more often, the dictionary or the thesaurus?
The thesaurus.
7. What's your favorite breakfast food?
Cookies. Seriously.
8. Have you ever purchased anything from an infomercial?
Yes, my food dehydrator. Love it. Even after 20 years it still works like new.
9. Have you ever crawled through a window?
Sneaking in and out yes. However, not recently.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not a lasting love. That has to be grown out of friendship and respect.
11. How man pairs of jeans do you own?
That would be a ZERO. I hate jeans.They are cold in the winter and hot in the summer. They are very uncomfortable and make my butt look even bigger than it is.
12. If someone were going to bake a cake to honor/represent you, what would it be? (Think creatively, like Duff and Crew on "Ace of Cakes.")
I don't know who Duff is or his crew but the cake made for me would probably be musical notes that are flat. I only know how to sing flat and off key. But very loudly.

A rough week

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Yes I have had a rough week, but it wasn't a surprise to me. But I should give you some background first.

In 1997 I experienced the first of many episodes of debilitating face pain. I started seeing a neurologist with some regularity, like every other month. He put me through countless blood tests, urinalyses, MRI's, and CT-scans. Every few months he would have a new torture for me. I blindly went right along with it. I needed to have answers to why, or what was causing this pain. After approximately 4 years he told me he had a diagnosis.

Sit down now and hang on for this earth shattering diagnosis of his.......I have....wait for it.....

UNIDENTIFIED FACE PAIN!!!!

Yes, you read that correctly. How do you treat this? With pain meds. Strong ones.
So, I started keeping track of what was happening to me just before an episode came on. I learned how to almost completely avoid getting this face pain.
A couple of years ago I was having an especially bad episode of this pain it went on for about 1 1/2 weeks. I took way more painkillers than anyone should take in a lifetime let alone in a weeks time. I got my son to take me into urgent care one Saturday morning and saw the most magnificent doctor God ever put on this earth. He took one looked at me....and he he had never seen me before and said to me, I will never forget his words, "You have trijeminal neuralgia." OW! The difference those few words made to me. I had thought maybe I was just insane and not feeling the pain.
The best way I can describe the pain is to day it is like having labor pain in your face constantly.

Enter this new pain I have. My arms cramp, which causes my hands to become claw- like looking. It doesn't last for a long period of time but it is happening more often, several times a day. I have tried 3 different types of braces. I have tired several different prescription medications, a few different natural herbs/vitamins. Finally my doctor suggested a trip to, yep you guessed it a neurologist. I groaned when she recommended this, she knows my background.
Monday was my appointment. He did what is called an EMT test. It sends some sort of electric shock through the suspect area. I remember having this done to my face. It hurt like, well, like hell. When the test was complete this so called doctor, this so called specialist in the field of neurology said that I had very minor case of carpal tunnel. His recommendation was to wear a brace. I asked him what if the brace doesn't work, because I had tried 3 of them, then what? His response was a resounding..."I don't know." Then he left the room. I was still seated on this table that was four feet of the floor, he had pushed the easy access stool aside, and I had no other option but to jump down off the table. There wasn't a sink with water to wash my arm. I left his office wondering if it was my destiny to get the really bad neurologists. I now know absolutely nothing more than before I went in to the appointment.
I have a call into my doctor but she in only in the office part time so I don't expect to hear from her until next week. I did tell her of his treatment and his indifference.
Since I saw my doctor, I am having new symptoms in my hands. When my fiingers are cold they become hard and look prunny like they have been in water a while. Also, my index fingers have started to throb. This morning even my finger nails hurt.
I am about to start down the road of self diagnosis again and am not looking forward to the trip.
I am trying hard not to have a pity party this week but it is so darn hard. If I give in and have this party I will be the only attendee because who wants to attend that kind of party. It's my party and I don't even want to be there.
So there is only part of why I am having a rough week. Don't worry this is not an installment story of my woes. I just needed to let loose some up my pent up frustration of medicine in this country.

Wordless Wednesday - April 14, 2010

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Wordless Wednesday
April 14, 2010

My day was made when I was give this opportunity.
He was in the tree at the side of the highway. I have never stopped for a photo op before, but he seemed to be posing for me.

Random Dozen - April 13, 2010

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Random Dozen
April 13, 2010

1. How do you feel about "Gladiator" sandals, also called "Roman" or "Jesus" sandals? A fashion yea or nay?
I think of the styles shown are kind of cute. They aren't made for my feet but cute anyway. My feet will scare small children and old ladies so I don't like to draw attention to them.
2. What is your favorite pizza?
I like to have 1/2 with sausage, green pepper, onion, and shrimp the other 1/2 with Canadian bacon and pineapple with extra cheese. Oh does that crate a craving or what??
3. There are plans in the works to sell roughly 1,000 items from Star Trek: The Experience in Las Vegas. This means you could buy Picard's chair for your family room. If not a Star Trek item, what prop, background, set, etc. from what TV or movie would you buy if you could?
[Ex: Hurley's "I Love my Shih tzu" shirt from LOST, the plantation home "Tara" from Gone With the Wind, or Tracy's tambourine from the Partridge Family.]
I would want to own the hats worn by Barbra Streisand in the movies Funny Girl and Funny Lady. They were spectacular.
4. Name a local food or restaurant that your area is famous for.
That would be Tobies. Anywhere you go in my state when a person hears the name of my town the comment will be, " Oh Tobies. Home of the caramel roll."
5. What is your current favorite snack?
I like to have Cheez-it crackers with Celestial Seasonings Cinnamon Apple Tea. Or chocolate.
6. Hypothetical: You are required to be a reality show contestant. Which show would you choose based on your probability of success? (You cannot choose "none.")
A. Dancing with the Stars
B. Biggest Loser
C. Survivor
Well not Dancing, because I have no rhythm and therefore can't dance. Survivor wouldn't work because I could not go that long without shaving or being really clean. Biggest loser because it might just be the place for me to take off what I need to and to learn how to keep it off.
7. On a scale of 1-10, with 1 being uninhabitable and 10 being cleanliness that meets the standards of OCD, how clean is your vehicle's interior?
Right now at the end of winter (yes, I cna still say that), it would be about a 3. In the summer it gets up to about a 7. But winter with all of it's wetness the floors get yucky, and the seats hold extra hats, gloves, scarves, etc. Not too mention a propane heater, blankets, rope, extra socks, and a pair of boots. Oh, and an ice scrapper and extra windshield cleaner.
8. It doesn't feel like Spring until _________.
I put my Birkenstocks on for the first time without socks.

9. Something that made you laugh really hard recently is ____.
Sorry,but I haven't had a good laugh in a while.
10. Tell me about a goal you're working toward.
The last year or so I have been working really hard at learning to be more tactful. Or maybe I should say learning how to be tactful, not HOW just to BE tactful. It is something I am not good at.
11. Share a thought-provoking or inspiring quote this week.
The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present. Barbara De Angelis.
12. Name one thing that you do as a parent that you absolutely know will make your kids happy. If you're not a parent, feel free to substitute "friend" or nomenclature that works for you.
Boy, you got me there.

Sunday Stealing April 12, 2010

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Sunday Stealing
April 12, 2010

Yeah I know this is Monday but I didn't do it on Sunday. I will try and pretend that this is still Sunday.

Sunday Stealing!

Sunday Stealing: The Me Me Meme

1. Never in my life have I been:
On a roller coaster that I didn't hate. Even the kid size one they ahd to stop and let me off.
2. The one person who can drive me nuts is:
My husband. Easy.
3. High school was:
Spent in a stupor.
4. When I’m nervous I:
Smoke more. Sad but true.
5. The last song I listened to was:
Heartlight by Neal Diamond. Written for ET. It makes me tear up every time I hear it.
6. If I were to get married right now my best man/maid of honor:
Would be the same as 20 years ago.
7. My hair is:
Multi-color
8. When I was 5:
I was in first grade.
9. Last Christmas:
Was the best.
10. I should be..:
Somewhere else
11. When I look down I see:
The slippers on my feet or a cat.
12. The happiest recent event was:
The day spent with my son.
13. If I were a character on 'Friends' I would be:
A little bit of Phoebe and a little bit of Monica. I am kind of a clean freak and I mostly dress like an old hippy. Complete with Birkenstocks and denim.
14. By this time next year:
I will more gray than this year.
15. My current gripe is:
People who don't believe we need universal health care in this country.
16. I have a hard time understanding:
People who don't think we need universal health care in this country.
17. There’s this girl I know that:
That should grow up and be 28 not act like 12. I would like to tell her ...be a woman not a girl.
18. If I won an award, the first person I would tell would be:
My best friend
19. Take my advice:
Never start smoking.
20. The thing I want to buy:
A new computer, an Ipod, a Bunn coffee maker.
21. If you visited the place I was born:
You would think you were in a small town, but it is in the city.
22. I plan to visit:
Maine someday.
23. If you spent the night at my house:
A cat would sleep with you.
24. I’d stop my wedding if:
If I knew then what I know now.
25. The world could do without:
The 2nd amendment.
26. I’d rather lick the belly of a cockroach than:
I CAN NOT think of anything.
27. Most recent thing I’ve bought myself:
A pack of gum
28. Most recent thing someone else bought me:
A Caribou coffee.
29. My favorite blonde is:
My best friend.
30. My favorite brunette is:
My son.
31. My favorite red head is:
not the doctor I saw today.
32. My middle name is:
Ann with an E...Anne just like Anne Shirley
33. In the morning I:
need coffee.
34. The animals I would like to see flying besides birds are:
Cats and dogs. They have been blamed for rain they might as well get to experience it.
35. Once, at a bar:
I fell , got knocked off a bar stool.
36. Last night I was:
too tired to sleep
37. There’s this guy I know who:
I can't get out of my mind.
38. If I was an animal I’d be:
A cat because I would be loved and waited on but would still be independent.
39. A better name for me would be:
Kathryn because it is my favorite woman's name.
40. Tomorrow I am:
Going to the doctor (Monday) to find out what is wrong with my arms.
41. Tonight I am:
very cold. I have a cover on me while I type this.
42. My birthday is:
in October.

Ten on the Tenth - April 10, 2010

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Ten on the Tenth
April 10, 2010

Ten great reasons to live in the woods.

The trees. They are beautiful all year. Even when they are bare in the Winter there is beauty to be seen.
The smell after a Spring rain. The earth is so fresh and clean then you just know that God has washed the land just for you.
The wild flowers that bloom. We have forget-me-nots, and trilliums that grow quite near the house, like feet outside my door. Farther into the woods we have Lady Slippers, the pink and yellow varieties. We also have violets, roses, and Jack-in-the-pulpits that grow. It is a painters pallet for my eyes the variety of color.
Speaking of color, I can not forget the colors of the autumn. With Spring springing up all over it would be easy to forget this beautious season. The falling leaves of fall smell and look equally wonderful.
I can't leave out the wildlife. Although I would just as soon forget the skunk that gave us a direct hit a few weeks back. We have an abundance of squirrel, chipmunks, and deer. Our deer are very trusting. Not too long ago I was able to hand feed them. The variety of birds we get to the feeders is astounding also. However, I have never seen a Cardinal.
You can go for a nice long walk and never leave home. Our property is 1/4 mile deep. By the time I have walked from front to back I am ready to be home in my comfy chair. There is no such thing as an easy walk in the woods. There is always something that has to be avoided or walked around. So the 1/4 mile is more like 3/4 of a mile and then I still have to get back to my house. But I have had a good workout.
You can play the stereo as loud as you like because the closest neighbor is 1/2 mile away and can't hear the music/noise.
Is a convenient place to build a tree stand for deer season.
You never have to leave home. Everyone wants to come for a visit and share in the beauty of the woods. The is both a good thing and a bad thing.
You can have a three day argument with your spouse and nobody knows because like mentioned before the closest neighbor is 1/2 mile away.

There that is my list of why it is great to live in the woods. These are not listed in any special order, but at one time or another each has been the number one reason it is great to live in the woods.

Things I have learned...and others I have not

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I have learned that when baking cookies there is no substitute for ...

Do Not even try to make a batch without this very necessary ingredient. Learn please form my experience this week. Cookies without soda are not cookies at all. They aren't pretty.

Another I have learned is that since I have decided to post more about my day-to-day life, but was afraid I would have nothing to say, I have consciously thinking about possible posts in each thing I do. In everything I do around the house, outside, on the computer is swimming around in my mind trying to become a blog post.

One thing I don't know is should I answer the comments to my posts individually or in bulk? Should I answer when they come to my e-mail with an e-mail address in the form of a reply e-mail or should I go to my post to answer? Do you like to have a response to your comments? Any suggestions welcome.

One more thing I don't know is how often to change the look of my blog? Now that I have a go to place for blog looks I am anxious to change it up again. But can it be done too often? And is it possible to change the font type and color?

And yet another thing I don't know is how to put a badge(?) for the blogs I faithfully follow onto my blog. Is there a secret club for people to know about these things and it is a limited membership? And I am not too sure how to link back to a post.

OK I am almost finished. How do you do a crossed out something. Like when if I were to say, "I am really good at this blog stuff." and wanted to cross out good and put in inexperienced. How do you do a cross out?

Is there a way to remember all of the things you do each day within the blog world? Which days are different meme days?

What is an RSS feed? And do I need one? Do I need to subscribe to one?

The don't know list is much longer than the do know list. But, if you have patience with me I might be able to dwindle down the don't know side.

I do appreciate any and all help/comments.

Thanks for stopping by,

I tried to get fancy with this and only bold the first word of each paragraph and this is what happened. I guess I am not ready for the really hared stuff yet.

Random Dozen - April 7, 2010

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Random Dozen
April 7, 2010

1. Define a great relationship.
Give and take, mutual respect, laughter together, equality,
2. Why is it called a "drive-through" if you have to stop? (Real question: What was the last food/drink you purchased at a drive-through?)
A few weeks ago I stopped at the Burger King for a coffee while I was driving to my aunt's. They usually have great coffee, especially since there isn't a Caribou close by. That morning the coffee tasted like it was leftover from the day before. It was burnt tasting and thick as tar.
3. As I type this, the Butler Bulldogs are getting ready to play in the NCAA championship game. Every Hoosier is hysterical about this except me. So in honor of the Bulldogs ... what is your favorite breed of dog? (I tried.)
A black Lab. They are the smartest, loyalist, kindest dogs God ever made.
4. If you had to move to a state besides the one you currently live in, where would you move?
It would be Colorado. I love the mountains. It could be Maine, but since I have never even visited there I would be hesitant to move there.
5. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
I would have two parents. Failing that I would have one parent who was functional. Or maybe it would be to grow up in a clean house.
6. Who's the funniest person you know?
My BF. We laugh hysterically together. Mostly because of her.
7. Did you get enough sleep last night?
I don't think so.
8. What's the first thing you thought about this morning?
Gosh, that was so long ago I don't know if I remember. It might have had something to do with coffee. Or maybe the bathroom. Or maybe feeding the cats.
9. Grilled or Fried? --HONESTLY
Grilled or fried what? Hamburgers? Grilled. Chicken? Grilled. Potatoes? Fried
10. Are you afraid of the dark?
I am if I can't use a light switch to turn the lights back on, as in a power outage.
11.When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
A nun or a farmers wife.
12. If you had one word to describe yourself , what would you choose?
BLUNT.

Easter Memories with my Son

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April 4, 2010

Living in Minnesota like I do, we might still have snow on the ground come Easter. A snowy backyard does not make an ideal place to hide the eggs. But, we managed to hide them nevertheless.

Easters that were cold and dreary we hid the eggs all over the house. My brother, his wife, and 2 step children always came for the weekend. We adults would have more fun being creative in our hiding places, especially as the kids got older. They thought they knew all of our places. Little did they know how our minds could function when forced.

We hid eggs under the couch, way under. We hid eggs under the stereo turntable cover. We hid an egg wrapped in a plastic bag in the back of the toilet. Nothing in the house was off limits to hiding eggs. The kids loved it, but so did the adults.

Years when we could hide eggs outside we used the plastic eggs. Each child had the same number of eggs. Each egg had their initials on it. So lets say WV found an egg that said SW he knew to leave it where he found it. They each were able to find them all eventually with no one feeling badly.

One year the kids decided to hide the eggs for us to find. I hate to admit it, but they did a much better job than we ever did. Of course we were outside that year and they made use of almost the whole 10 acres. The little sneaks.

The last Easter my mom was with us is especially memorable, because the kids tried to get out of trouble by blaming Gramma.
It was a cold Easter and we were in the house all day. Even though it was cold, it had been melting. Our side yard was one great big huge mud puddle. However, the front yard had dried up nicely.
After dinner the kids finally got to my mom, and she told them to go outside and play. They dressed warmly and away they went. We played cards. After about 45 minutes the door burst open, and the kids came pushing in. Fortunately, they were spotted before they ran across my carpet. They were head to toe MUD.
They didn’t just go out and play, they went out and played in the mud. We demanded and explanation as to why they thought playing in the mud was such a good idea. Their reason was simple, “Because Gramma told us to. “ I know that my mom loved to play practical jokes, but I also know she would never ever tell them to play in the mud. She categorically denied telling them that. I believed her as did the other 3 parents.
The kids looked funny and it was hard to keep a straight face but what they had done was just plain wrong. We decided that the most fitting “punishment” for this particular crime was for them to wash their own clothes, and pay for the coin operated machines out of their Easter money.
Oh yes there was grumbling to be heard. That happened in 1991.

The kids are now adults. My bother has divorced his them wife. Easter is just not the same. We enjoy our memories and today my husband and I reminisced about the escapades of Easters past.

I hope you all had an especially wonderful and blessed Easter and that it was mud free.

Thanks for stopping by,

Easter memories - April 2, 2010

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I looked all over the house this week for pictures from my childhood. They are pictures taken at Easter of my brother and I. We were in our Easter finery.
My mom always had us dressed to the nines for Easter. There was the required hat and gloves for me and the patten leather shoes. My brother always had a tie.

I can see those darn pictures. I knew right where they were. Do you hate it when you know where something is, go to look for it and it isn't there? Where do you look then? I looked in every drawer in the house, even my kitchen utensil drawer. I can't find the pictures. However, I don't have a working scanner so maybe it is a good thing I can't share them. I will probably find them on Monday when Easter is over.

We had a buffet in our dining room. It's top was always decorated for Easter. My mom made a centerpiece. The centerpiece consisted of colored eggs, jelly beans sprinkled about, and little other Easter candies. No Peeps in our house, not now and not then.

My mom did all of the egg coloring herself when we were still expecting the Bunny to make the delivery. We had the same basket every year. She filled each basket with the grass and the eggs, and the candies, and then she would hide them. I loved Easter almost as much as Christmas.

My mom made the holiday special with all of the childish fun things about the holiday, but she never let us forget the real reason for the Sunday we call Easter.

I think tomorrow I will write about how we celebrated the real reason for this day.
I also have a memory or two from my son's childhood to share.
Come back please to read all about it.

If you can't make it back, I hope you have an especially wonderful day.

Thanks for coming by,

Sunday Stealing: The 35 Questions X 2 - April 3, 2010

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Sunday Stealing
The 35 questions X 2
April 3, 2010

36. If you suddenly became single or are single, do you think you could last in a relationship for 12 months or more?
If I were to become single now, I would never be in another relationship ever again.
37. Do you forgive or forget?
I forgive but never forget

38. Do you trust people?
Sometimes too much.

39. What are you not looking forward to?
Getting old

40. Do you get mad easily?
Oh my yes.
41. Tell us about the last time you were told you that you have pretty eyes.
My optometrist told me that just before cataract surgery.
42. Do you have strange dreams?
When I remember my dream it is pretty strange, but mostly I don't remember them.
43. Ever licked someone's cheek or forehead?
LOL Yes I have. Enough said.
44. Tell us about the last time you fell asleep in someones arms.
Stretching my memory tonight is not a good thing. I don't remember. Unless my cat counts.
45. When did you last play a game?
Last week I played Don't Break the Ice.
46. What do you have on you at all times?
Clothing, except of course when I am in the shower.
47. Do you go out in public without getting all dressed up?
Yes most of the time.
48. Do you like fruity or minty gum?
Minty
49. Favourite musician or group?
A golden oldie ...Neal Diamond...a new one Josh Groban or Susan Boyle
50. Do you like anyone?
Almost everyone I know
51. Favourite computer game?
Any hidden object game.
52. First album you ever went and bought with your own money?
Gosh that would be in the late 60's, and it was probably something by Peter, Paul, and Mary.
53. Think back five months ago, were you single?
I haven't been single in over 24 years.
54. Do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?
Yes I do like to mark the occasion. Unless it is the anniversary of a death.
55. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
I hope so.
56. Last thing you bought?
Food
57. Are you a jealous person?
Nope.
58. Does it take a lot to make you cry?
It usually does but lately there is always a lump in my throat.
59. Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?
Yes.
60. Have you ever had your heart-broken?
Too many times to count.
61. Have you ever done something while drunk that you still cannot believe you did?
Yes. Back in my mispent youth I drank water from a hose that was coming from the side of a building. It was the overflow from the bait shop's minnow tank. EWWW is right.
62. Is there anyone you secretly wish you could be spending your time with right now?
Yes.
63. Do you text?
I texted my son once. It freaked him out.
64. Do you wish someone would call or text you right now?
No. When I am on the computer I don't like to talk on the phone.
65. Is your life anything like it was a year ago?
It is too much like it was a year ago.
66. Go back one year on your blog. Leave us a link to your favorite post.
http://trudystreasures-2cats.blogspot.com/2009/04/not-follower-never-again.html
67. You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life, what is it?
It would be water
68. Tell us about someone that you have lost contact with someone you wish you didn't.
What can you say about a love lost? A love you never got to say good bye to? A 4 year relationship ended not because of an argument, but because someone had stolen his children and he had to go find them. He had custody and their mother ran away with them. I have not seen him in almost 30 years. I think of him often. Probably because of all the unanswered questions.
69. What is the last thing you said out loud?
"Do you want a slice of apple and peanut butter?"
70. Will this year be better than last?
I sure hope so.

Easter Random Dozen - March 31. 2010

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Easter Random Dozen
March 31, 2010

1. How do you feel about the marshmallow Easter Peeps?
I think they look and feel and taste like nuclear waste. Does that answer the question?
2. Chickens are notoriously nervous creatures. When you are nervous, what is the best way to calm down?
Chocolate, screaming, smoking (sad but true).
3. People say, "April showers bring May flowers." Do you enjoy Spring rains?
I love the rain as long it is not a storm. I like to walk in a warm summer rain. I love the smell after a rain.
4. When I was randomly flipping through TV channels this week, I saw a show in which tattoo parlor employees received tattoos of a co-worker's face on their bodies. I can't imagine having a portrait of a colleague tattooed on me. But if someone forced you to receive a portrait tattoo (face only) of anyone, who would it be? Why?
I guess to be safe I would say .......
5. Would you rather have a tattoo (any kind) or a nose ring?
A nose ring because the hole would eventually grow closed if not used. A tattoo is forever.
6. Do you have any special plans for Easter?
Just husband and I for dinner. Turkey and etc.
7. Cadbury Eggs or Reese Eggs?
Cadbury peanut butter eggs. NOT the kind when cracked open they resemble an egg. EWWW.
8. What was the last thing/person you took a picture of?

The stand of popples across the road from us. They are not yet greened up.

9. What book are you reading now, or what was the last one?
I am reading a cozy mystery. The other book I am reading is called "The King Of Lies". I don't know yet if I like it or not.
10. What do you think is the most difficult task when it comes to Spring cleaning?
Doing the windows is hardest for me. It means taking down the storms, cleaning them, cleaning the screens, putting up the screens, then putting away the storms. All of my windows are done from the inside that way. But then I have to go outside and wash all of the outside of the windows. I have 15 windows to do.
11. How many pairs of flip-flops do you own?
I was going to say zero because I only wear Birkensotcks but then I opened my trunk this afternoon and there was a pair of flip flops. I don't know where they came from but they must be mine.
12. Which color makes you happiest?
Yellow, the color of the sun. The sun makes everything grow.

Happy Birthday my Gentle Giant.

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Twenty six years ago today my son was born. He was my gentle giant coming to me weighing 10 pounds 9 1/2 ounces and 23 1/2 inches long.

When God decided to give me a child, He knew that I was not capable of dealing with a difficult one. He gave me the easiest baby ever to be born to a mortal mother.

He is my special boy. He slept through the night in 2 weeks. He was potty trained by 2 1/2 years old...even through the night (and they say boys are the hardest).

He has grown into a fine young man. He cares deeply and gives freely of himself. He is sarcastic and funny. He tries to be cynical but can't pull it off quite right.

He made my life complete. Before he was born I had been searching for something. He is my something.

Happy Birthday my sweet boy (he doesn't like the sweet boy).I hope it is as sweet as you are.

I think he was 2 in this picture with his favorite bunny. I still have the bunny. Isn't he sweet?

I can't get to the most recent picture of him. It was taken at Christmas and I know it is on my computer somewhere, I just can't find it.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - March 29, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
March 29, 2010

I am going to try something different this week. We'll see how it works.

Outside my window. . .

My driveway as it looks now. It will look this way for about the next month and a half. Then the leaves will be out in full. I will post the difference then.

I am thinking. . .

The darker reddish vines like things are only part of my wild blackberry bushes. I am thinking about how they will all look when they are in bloom. The scent is so sweet.

I am learning...that having a working camera that is digital is lots of fun.

I am thankful for. . .

My husband. I often forget how great he really is. I often take him for granted. But today when I needed some serious help with things he was right there with me, helping. And he did it all with a smile; even when I was frustrated.

From the kitchen. . . Spaghetti, and bread tonight for dinner. Salmon chowder tomorrow with green salad. Liver and onions on Wednesday. Turkey for Easter.

I am wearing. . .the top half of my jammies that have rubber duckies on them with blue waves and pink bubbles. Black sweats for the bottom half. No socks or shoes.

I am creating. . .another baby blanket in pink. I am going to try and sell this one. Pictures to follow when finished.

I am going. . .nowhere this week. Homebody all week. Wow, I can't remember the last time that happened.

I am reading. . .A Grace Chapel Inn book. And Nancy Drew.

I am hoping. . .

This is a stand of popple trees that is across the road from us. I am hoping to see a haze of green soon where eventually leaves will be.

I am hearing. . .A Sherlock Holmes movie my husband is watching.

Around the house. . .

Yes, that is my Christmas village. I am just now putting it away. The snow melted in front of the shed 2 weeks ago, but it took me this long to get to it. The books above are what I use to give the different buildings the look of a variety of heights.

One of my favorite things. . .SPRING!! Can you tell?

A few plans for the rest of the week. . .I store my off season clothing in the shed contained in tubs. When I got into the shed today one of them had water on the lid. The roof leaked. I am praying that the clothing inside is not ruined. It is 1/2 of my summer clothing. Now while I would love new summer season clothes, I can't afford them right now. So this week I will be cleaning those clothes.

From my picture book....

His name is Randy. He is named after my BF,who taught him how to play when he was a baby. Now he is my helper in all things.

Thanks to Peggy at The Simple Woman’s Daybook for this wonderful meme. Visit Peggy starting Tuesday to find the list of participants in this week’s Daybook.

Thanks for stopping by.

Monday Mahem - The Annoying Meme March 28, 2010

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Monday Mayhem
The Annoying Meme
March 28, 2010

What annoys you about people that you spend time with outside your home (coworkers etc)?
The rudeness that seems to be normal these days.

What annoys you about people in your home?
His incessant noises. He makes this noise that sounds like static. ALL DAY AND NIGHT LONG!

What annoys you about talking on the phone?
Friends who let their children (14-16) interrupt our long distance conversation.

What annoys you about the over-used terms that people use?
The fact that evidently no one can think for themselves and need to have catch phrases. Isn't there an original thought left?

What annoys you about restaurant foods?
The quality and the price.

What annoys you about restaurant servers?
Multiple piercings. I mean really I don't care to see a stud on the tongue of my server or one in their lip. EWW.

What annoys you about reading other blogs?
Giveaways that I have to post back to my blog and then go onto Twitter to get more entries. Or worse go to another web site entirely. I don't bother with those.

What annoys you about memes?
I don't know for sure.

What annoys you about commenting on blogs?
I like to comment but don't always have anything to say. So I just don't. This is something that probably annoys other bloggers about people like me.

What annoys you about people who chew gum?
When they crack it. One time I was in for a mammogram and the tech kept cracking her gum right in my ears.

What annoys you about driving on the highway?
Tailgaters. I mostly drive on a 2 lane highway. I hate it when they are right behind me and I am doing more than the speed limit. Where would they like me to go? Wait don't answer that.

What annoys you about shopping at Walmart?
The fact that nothing is made in the USA and most of it is made in China of all places.

What annoys you about kids?
Almost everything.

What annoys you about your gender?
The whiners.

What annoys you about the opposite sex?
Almost everything.

What annoys you about shoes?
The older I get the bigger my foot gets.

What annoys you about shopping for clothes?
That they keep making them smaller but not changing the size. That and the prices.

What annoys you about music?
Songs whose words I can not understand.

What annoys you about drinking alcohol?
I don't

What annoys you about pizza?
That pizza places keep trying to improve on something that is already perfect. Stuffed crust, square, different types of sauces, etc. Oh and people who put mushrooms and or anchovies on a beautiful pizza.

As promised

2010-03-27T22:55:00.000-07:00

March 28, 2010
12:58 AM

I hate trying to think of something to write in the topic line of an email and I just realized now that I don't like here any better.

I did say the other day that I would write about the things that I would or would not do with my new and improved (?) blog.

Some things I won’t do right away because I don’t know how….yet. These things partly include the borders. I see on other blogs that people have put family pictures there. I would like to do that but I have not figured it out yet. But, given time I am sure that I will.
I won’t be putting pictures (badges?) of web sites that I want you to try. I know that some of you make a salary of sorts from doing this, but it is not my desire to make my blog a commercial. If I have a super, fantastic, wonderfully, amazing product to tell you about it will be in my blog and there will be no compensation to me.
I probably won’t have very good punctuation because commas and semi-colons confuse the heck out of me. I try to use them properly, but I am sure I make a lot of mistakes. I know that I must have learned all about punctuation in the many writing classes that I have taken, but my brain just isn’t bringing any of the rules forward…yet.

Some things I will be doing are: staying with the memes that I participate in. I do enjoy them and sometimes they help get my creative thoughts moving. I will always give credit where the meme came from but as for a link back to it, well that is one of those things I have yet to learn.
I am going to write about things in my life. It might not be so much day to day because my life day to day is pretty much the same. However, I will write about things, thoughts that are happening around me. I don’t know if it will be everyday but certainly several times a week.
I may write about stuff that happened when I was growing up. In fact I know of one such story right from the start.
I will share pictures when I have them. I am going to try and be more proficient with my camera. Especially now that I almost have it figured out. I am also going to see about getting my scanner hooked up. I have lots of pictures that I would like to share if I can get them into the computer.

So until next time...
Thanks for stopping by,

Kathy from Reflections by Kathy taught/told me how to sign my name.
Thanks Kathy.

Sunday Stealing The 35 Questions X 2 - March 27, 2010

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Sunday Stealing
The 35 questions X 2
March 27, 2010

1. How far away is the last person you kissed?
About 50 miles
2. Has someone ever told you they would be with you forever?
Yes, my husband
3. Last person you were in a car with?
My aunt and cousin
4. Any plans for tomorrow?
Some grocery shopping
5. How long does it take for you to take a shower?
About 10 minutes in the water, about another 15 in the bathroom.
6. Best friend or close friends?
Both
7. Is tomorrow going to be a good day?
I am not psychic so I have no way of knowing, but I sure hope so.
8. Did you kiss anyone Friday?
Nope
9. Ever thrown up in public?
In my mispent youth I did too many times.
10. What's on your mind RIGHT NOW?
Financial troubles.
11. Who was the last person you talked to?
My husband
12. What is the WORST subject they teach at school?
PhEd and/or sports. Ever notice how the Arts are the first subjects to get cut but NEVER the football, or basketball, or volleyball? Aren't the arts important any more? Oh don't get me started.
13. Have you seen anyone lately that you don't get along with?
I haven't seem too many people lately
14. What is your favourite colour top to wear?
Yellow
15. Have you ever been in a car accident?
I have been in 3 rear end accidents. I was the one getting hit.
16. What's the closest thing to you that's green?
The shirt I am wearing.
17. Where would you like to be right now?
In the city.
18. Write down some lyrics to the song you're listening to?
I don't think there are any lyrics. It is the theme music to PBS Sherlock Holmes.
19. How many dogs do you have?
None
20. Is anything bugging you right now?
Just about everything. I'm kinda crabby tonight.
21. Is life going right for you now?
No.
22. Is there someone you care about more than yourself?
My family
23. What made you laugh today?
A movie
24. What was the last movie you watched?
Sleepless in Seattle
25. Whats the last conversation you had about?
Money
26. What were you doing at 7:00 this morning?
Still sleeping.
27. Do you like your hair long or short?
Very short
28. Do you want to see somebody right now?
Yes.
29. Do you like the rain?
If it is a warm rain I like to walk in it. If I am in a warm house and it is a cold rain, yes I do like it.
30. Did you have a valentine this year?
My husband
31. The last person you kissed needs you at 3 am, would you go?
Absolutely.
32. Would you honestly say you'd risk your life for someone else?
Of course.
33. Honestly, if you could go back 1 month and change something would you?
Yes I sure would. I wouldn't make the mistake in the checkbook that I did.
34. How do you feel about boys smoking?
I wish I didn't smoke, and I sure wish no one else did either.
35. Could you see yourself with someone forever?
I suppose since I am married for almost 20 years, yes I can.

I have finally done it...I think.

2010-03-25T17:06:00.000-07:00

Today is March 25, 2010. A while ago I gave thought to blogging more about myself, more of my thoughts and ….err my opinions. Not that I thought anyone would really care, but the reason I started blogging was to give myself a voice and to do some writing.
Today is that day.

Two weeks ago I went out of town to visit my aunt, and cousin. I had a wonderful time with them. We did so many things, but one thing that stands out is our trip to the Habitat for Humanity Store. If you have never been to one check out their web site to see if there is one in your area. The things in the store are incredible, things that have been left over from new construction and things that have come from a remodel of someone’s home. You can purchase wood, doors, windows, light fixtures, washers, dryers, the proverbial kitchen sink and yes even a Jacuzzi. The prices for these things are rock bottom. My cousin bought a bathroom sink for $15.00. It looked brand new. Most of the people who work there are volunteers and all money made goes back to Habitat for Humanity. What a great place.

As you can see from the above picture my aunt has a green thumb. This is her amaryllis that has been blooming since Christmas. Her Christmas cactus blooms at Easter. She has an extraordinary garden outside also that my cousin helps with.

The cats live in the house with my aunt. They allow her and my cousin to reside with them. They are nice enough, but of course not as grand as my cats, but then none are. The cat sitting on the stool likes to have my aunt sing Frere Jaques. The kitty will climb all over my aunt, giving her kisses. When my cousin gives the evening yell that it is, “Brushy time” the other cat comes running. Yeah, I know pretty special, but you don’t know mine.

These two pictures are of a lake near where my aunt lives. I promise it is a lake. I don’t live on either coast and the ocean has not frozen over. This is a huge lake and would take hours to drive all the way around it. You can not see the opposite shore. The ice won’t be out of the lake until late April.

Well there you have it. My first installment of things in my life.
I think I will leave for now, but will return with some things that I will do and not be doing on my blog. Again, not because anyone will really care but because I need to state these things for myself.

Someday I will learn how to do one of those fancy signature things but until then…

Thanks for stopping by,
Trudy

Random Dozen - March 24, 2010

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Random Dozen
March 24, 2010

The theme is Spring . . . and any other random questions that crept in.

1. What is your favorite sign of Spring?
I love to hear the Canadian geese fly overhead on their way back home. I like to watch the buds on the trees start to appear. Those are sure signs of Spring.

2. Did you remember to spring forward on March 14? If not, how did it impact your day?
I was not at home, but my husband remembered to set them ahead. I reminded him. I love daylight savings time. I am always eager for the day to start.

3. If soil, time, talent and climate were no problem, what vegetable would you plant in a garden this year?
It's a toss up between tomatoes and sweet corn. I have never had any luck with either one. Now I buy them at a produce stand.

4. If soil, time, talent and climate were no problem, what fruit would you plant?
I think oranges or bananas. You can do many things with both. But I truly love avacadoes. Hmmm, may I have all three?

5. What is your least favorite insect?
The kind that fly or crawl or bite or sting.

6. March 22 was World Water Day. To celebrate, here are some water questions. Do you drink bottled water? If so, what brand?
Only if I forget my water bottle. I need a bottle of water in the car when I am shopping and try to bring mine everywhere. IF I have to buy it it will be whatever is cheapest with a sport top.

7. Have you ever been somewhere that it was not safe to drink the local water? If so, how did you handle that?
Before we got Culligan as a monthly service for reverse osmosis I don't think ours was very healthy. It is full of rust and small grains of sand.

8. How many glasses of water do you drink per day?
I aim for 10 but it is usually around 8 1/2.

9. March 24 is the birthday of Harry Houdini. Have you ever watched a professional magic show? Share.
We used to watch David Copperfield on the television.

10. Have you ever been a participant in a professional magic show (up on stage!)?
When I was in college there was a magician in the student center one day. He also did hypnosis. I was onstage. This is also my most embarrassing moment. Enough said.
11. March 24 is also the birthday of Steve McQueen and Clyde Barrow. Do you like Westerns or gangster movies? If so, what is your favorite?
I think I prefer Westerns because I know who the good guy is. In a gangster movie sometimes I find myself rooting for the bad guy. Not a good thing.

12. (Really random) What U.S. state that you've never visited would you like to visit someday?
Maine. I love the looks of it. The craggy rocks and the ocean are beautiful. Plus I love lobster.

What's on your Nightstand - March 2010

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What's on your Nightstand?
March 2010

I have on my nightstand at this time way too many books for just one month.

I have:
Nancy Drew The Clue in the Jewel Box
Nancy Drew The Sky Phantom
Nancy Drew The Witch Tree Symbol
The Whistling Season by Ivan Doig
Please Help Me God by Sister Mary Rose McGeady
Death's Domain by Alex Matthews
A Wild Cold State by Debra Monroe
Band Room Bash by Candice Speare

If there were a category for What's by your living room chair I would have 4 or 5 more to add.

Monday Mahem:Yes and No March 22, 2010

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Monday Mayhem
Yes and No
March 22, 2010

HAVE YOU?

1. Googled yourself?
Yes
2. Googled your neighbor?
No ( but now I will)
3. Used Google maps to spy on someone?
Yes
4. Spied on someone via Facebook?
No
5. Friended someone on Facebook that you don't know?
No

6. Tweeted gossip?
No
7. Followed a celeb on Twitter?
No
8. Kissed any one of your Facebook friends?
Yes
9. Regretted an online relationship?
No
10. Dumped someone online?
No
11. Played a prank on someone online?
No
12. Spied on a High School bully online?
No
13. Written a nasty email?
Oh yes.
14. Sent something X-rated via email?
NO!!
15. Searched your state's/locality's database for predators?
Oh yes!!
16. Done an online search on someone's traffic offenses?
No
17. Ordered dinner online?
No
18. Purchased something over $250 online?
Yes
19. Left an anonymous comment?
No
20. Checked out someone else's email (as in spy on your s.o.)?
Yes

Sunday Stealing: The Eight Tens Meme - March 20, 2010

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Sunday Stealing: The Eight Tens Meme

TEN TO START.

1. Are you single?
No, married almost 20 yrs.
2. Are you happy?
Mostly
3. Are you bored?
Mostly
4. Are you naked?
Nope
5. Are you a blonde?
Sometimes
6. Are you moody?
Sometimes
7. Are you a lover/hater?
Lover
8. Are you hot/cold?
Cold
9. Are you Irish?
A tiny bit
10. Are you Asian?
Nope
TEN FACTS.

1. Name:
Trudy
2. Nicknames:
Gert...but ONLY my brother dares to call me the hated name.
3. Birth mark:
On thigh
4. Hair color:
Natural? Forgotten. Now? blondish red
5. Natural hair color:
See above
6. Eye color:
Hazel/green
7. Height:
five feet
8. Facebook Mood:
Ehh
9. Favorite color:
Yellow
10. One Place to Visit:
Mississippi Headwaters, Bemidji Minnesota. You can say you walked across the river.
TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE.

1. Do you believe in love at first sight?
No, love needs to develop
2. Do you believe in soul mates?
No, Except for God.
4. Have you ever been hurt emotionally?
Yes, sob.

5. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
Yes.
6. Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes
7. Have you ever liked someone and not told them?
No, I bold that way.
8. Are you afraid of commitment?
Twenty years married? I don't think so.
9. Who was the last person you hugged?
My husband.
10. Who was the last person you kissed?
My aunt.
TEN THIS OR THAT.

1. Love or lust?
Love
3. Cats or dogs?
Cats all the way. Cats rule, dogs drool.
4. A few best friends or many regular friends?
One best friend, a few regular.
5. Television or internet?
I can't have both?
6. Chinese Or Indian?
Chinese
7. Wild night out or romantic night in?
Neither
8. Money or Happiness?
Money
9. Night or day?
Day
10. MSN or phone?
Phone
TEN HAVE YOU EVER.

1. Been caught sneaking out?
Yes
2. Been skinny dipping?
Yes
3. Stolen?
Yes
4. Bungee jumped?
No
5. Lied to someone you liked?
Yes
6. Finished an entire jaw breaker?
Yes
8. Wanted an ex bf/gf back?
NO
9. Cried because you lost a pet?
Yes
10. Wanted to disappear?
Yes
TEN PREFERENCES IN A PARTNER.

1. Smile or eyes?
Smile
2. Light or dark hair?
Dark
3. Hugs or kisses?
Kisses
4. Shorter or taller?
Taller
5. Intelligence or attraction?
Attraction
6. Romantic or spontaneous?
Spontaneous
7. Funny or serious?
Serious
8. Older or Younger?
Older
9. Outgoing or quiet?
Quiet
10. Sweet or Bad Ass?
Sweet
TEN HAVE YOU’S.

1. Ever performed in front of a large crowd?
Yes
2. Ever done drugs?
Yes
3. Ever been pregnant?
Yes
5. Ever been on a cheer leading team?
NO
6. Ever Been on a dance team?
NO
7. Ever been on a sports team?
NO
8. Ever been in a drama play/production?
Yes
9. Ever owned a BMW, Mercedes Benz, Escalade, Hummer or Bentley?
No
10. Ever been in a rap video?
No
TEN LASTS.

1. Last phone call you made:
To a friend
2. Last person you hung out with:
Aunt
4. Last time you worked:
19 years ago
5. Last person you tackled:
Never have
6. Last person you IM’d:
Internet friend
8. Last person(s) you went to the movies with:
My son
9. Last thing you missed:
My mom
10. Last thing you ate:
Brownie

Ten on the Tenth - March 10, 2010

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Ten on the Tenth
March 10, 2010

Signs of Spring. Most of these have not yet reached my house but I remember from past years that they eventually do happen here.

10. The sound of the Canada Geese returning. Their honks can be heard as they fly overhead. I like that they announce their arrival.

9. Raccoons and skunks seen on the highway.

8. Flying bugs.

7. Trilliums coming up in the woods.

6. Forget - me - nots taking over the yard.

5. The absence of snow.

4. Longer days.

3. A loamy smell in the woods. A good clean dirt smell from the decaying leaves of last fall turn into black dirt.

2. Feral cats becoming mommies. We always have a couple litters of babies in the Spring.

And the number one sign of spring is (insert drum roll here).....
The Chinese Beetle or as we unaffectionatly call them biting lady bugs.

Random Dozen - March 10, 2010

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Random Dozen
March 10,2010

So here are your random plinko questions lined up in a row just like tin cans:

1. How old is the oldest pair of shoes in your closet?
I think the oldest pair of shoes is almost 20 years old. I wore them when I got married. They are so uncomfortable that I doubt I have worn them since, but can't throw them out.
2. Did you buy Girl Scout cookies this year? If so, what variety?
I never saw any Girl Scouts to buy from. The Girl Scout I used to know is not a member now. I would have bought Thin Mints. I live for Thin Mints.
3. Do you know how to ballroom dance? If not, would you like to?
I do not know how. I would love to learn. Ever since I first saw "An American President", I have wanted to dance the way Annette Benning and Michael Douglas did.
4. Were you a responsible child/teenager?
In a lot of ways I was responsible. My mom went back to work when I was in the 6th grade. It was up to me to come home from school and get dinner started. I made out the grocery list each week. That ended when I went into high school. Then I became so very rebellious that I shock myself now at how bad I was.
5. How many of this year's Oscar-nominated movies did you see?
Sad to say I didn't see any. I haven't been to a movie in about 4 years. I am going to change that this year. Even if it means going alone.
6. If you're going to have a medical procedure done, such as having blood drawn, is it easier for you to watch someone else having the procedure done or have it done yourself?
I don't mind watching when I have blood drawn once the needle is in. I don't like to see the initial poke.
7. What is your favorite day of the week and why?
I think it has to be Monday but I am not sure why.
8. Do you miss anyone right now?
I miss my mom, my dad, my friends in WA state that I have never even met, I miss my cousin that died 1 1/2 yrs ago, I miss my son who I don't see nearly often enough.
9. Do hospitals make you queasy?
No they do not. They serve a purpose. When I have been the patient I put my trust in their knowledge. Knowledge that I lack. When I go to visit I go with a caring heart and hope to give something to the person I am visiting. Even if it is only a fleeting smile or a minute to forget why they are in the hospital.
10. At which store would you like to max-out your credit card. Not that you ever would, you responsible person, you.
Tough one. Probably most likely a bookstore. Then a shoe and purse store. I can't imagine being able to buy any of those things brand new.
11. Are you true to the brand names of products/items?
I never change brands of TP or laundry soap. Before the recession I never changed brands on anything. Now I buy whatever is cheapest.
12. Which is more difficult: looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when he/she is telling you how he/she feels?
I don't like to discuss feelings no matter who is doing the talking. I mean what is the point? I either like/love you or I don't. And I probably can guess how you feel about me so why discuss it into the ground? This, what my DH calls an attitude, drives him crazy. He always wants to TALK. I tell him I love him, what more does he want?

Curious as a Cat- #209 - March 9, 2010

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Curious as a Cat
#209
March 9, 2010

1) Have you ever had a friend date someone you couldn't stand? How did you handle that?
Oh yeah I have. I tried really hard never to be around when he was with her. This was a firend boy who had a hated GF. I could not stand her and luckily he got smart and dumped her before I had to tell him what she was really like. This was of course centuries ago.
2) Among all your close friends, who is the cutest?
Without mentioning names it is my BFF. She has the wittiest smile and the twinkliest (I just made up this word)eyes. She can raise one eyebrow up her forehead when in doubt of something. Very cute indeed.
3) Do you have someone wrapped around your finger? Or are you wrapped around someone else's finger?
I don't think either of these is true for me. I can not be controlled just by someones will. Also, I don't like to hold control over another person.

The picture is a hot summer night. It is at the end of a summer festival.The fireworks are glorious. Even the mosquitoes are awed by the beauty.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - March 8, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
March 8, 2010

For Today… Monday, March 8, 2010

Outside my window...gloomy. cloudy. Fog this morning. But and this is huge...the snow is melting. There is hope for Spring.

I am thinking... about getting a very small piercing in my nose. I mean very small. I saw one and it was so cute. But I am worried that I may be too old. I am also thinking that I might start doing a more day to day type blog. Like what most people do. I am a little worried that I don't have enough to write about. However, it would be a perfect place for me to have a voice. I don't want to be all negative. I only have 25 followers and would hate to lose any. Some prayer is needed on this.

I am thankful for...God who will forgive me even when I find it hard to forgive myself.

I am wearing...dark green pants, lavender sweater, socks, and slippers.

I am going...to make sure the house is clean by Friday. I won't be here for a few days and don't want to come home to a mess.

I am reading..."High, Wide, and Lonesome" by Hal Borland. It is about his family and when they relocated from Nebraska to Colorado in the early 1900s.

On my mind...my son. He turns 26 this month.

I am hoping...to get some things ready for sale on eBay this week. It has been a long time since I have done that, but now I really need to clear things out.

I am learning...that I don't like the idea of growing older and don
t know what to do about it.

From the kitchen…pork chops, mashed potatoes, fresh asparagus w/hollandaise sauce. Tomorrow baked fish, risotto, brussell sprouts.

From around the house...laundry to be put away. A sweet treat to be baked. Kitties to be played with.

Some plans for the rest of the week...a haircut, grocery shopping, and pharmacy on Wednesday. Packing on Thursday. Travel on Friday.

I am going to try to add some photos of the baby blanket I crocheted, the hat, and the booties. I hope it works.

I needed a model. I don't have any baby dolls. This is a hooded blanket. The booties are of 2 different styles, a regular type and a Mary Jane kind.

The hat is a simple crochet. I don't make very good tassles but I think it is kind of cute.

The booties.

The blanket has a hood that is crocheted right onto a corner. The hood can be seen more clearly in the picture with the dog (stuffed).

Sunday Stealing - March 6, 2010

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Sunday Stealing
March 6, 2010

1. Are you currently in a serious relationship?
Yes, I have been married almost 20 years.
2. What was your dream growing up?
I wanted to be a farmer's wife and have lots of kids.
3. What talent do you wish you had?
I wish I could sing well. I sing badly now but very loudly. I would like to sing loudly but well.
4. If I bought you a drink, what would it be?
In a restaurant is would be root beer, with pizza it would be beer.
5. What was the last book you read?
The High and Lonesome by Hal Borland.
6. What zodiac sign are you?
Libra
7. Any tattoos and/or piercings? Explain where.
Two in my left ear, one in my right. I thinking of getting a little one by the side of my nose but am wondering if I am too old at 54.
8. Worst habit?
Smoking.
9. What is your favorite sport?
Winter Olympics
10. Do you have a pessimistic or optimistic attitude?
I am the eternal optimist.My family says I wear rose colored glasses. I say I look darn good in them.
11. Worst thing to ever happen to you?
WOW! How serious should this be? OK not so much. I slammed my finger in the car door when I was about 16 and now that finger nail doesn't grow very long.
12. Tell me one weird fact about you.
I can't drive a stick shift because I am left handed. I can't get my right hand to shift while the left foot is doing something different.
13. Do you think clowns are cute or scary?
Clowns are fun. Very cute.
14. If you could change one thing about how you look, what would it be?
I would have thick, luscious hair.
15. Would you be my crime partner or my conscience?
It would depend on the crime. If the consequences could mean jail time, I would be your conscience. If it were a crime of fun I would be a partner.
16. Ever been arrested?
Yes, I spent the night in a North Carolina jail. Waiting to sober up so I could drive the guys I was with home. They were worse off than I was.
17. If you won $10,000 today, what would you do with it?
Pay down debt with some, have fun with some.
18. What's your favorite place to hang out at?
If one were closer to where I lived it would be a bookstore, or a yarn shop.
19. Do you believe in ghosts?
I lived in a haunted house. Yes I am a believer even though I know I shouldn't be.
20. Favorite thing to do in your spare time?
Read, or knit.
21. Do you swear a lot?
No, in fact instead of saying cr**, I say crumb. But, if I am really , really angry I can let it fly.
22. Biggest pet peeve?
The words pet peeve. Plus know-it alls who really know nothing.
23. In one word, how would you describe yourself?
Fun.
24. Do you believe/appreciate romance?
Not after 20 years of being married.
25. Do you believe in God?
Absolutely.
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Random Dozen - March 3, 2010

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Random Dozen
March 3, 2010

1. Do you prefer even or odd numbers? Any particular reason?
I like even numbers. Six to be exact. There is a 6 in my birth date, in my husbands, my son's birth date adds up to 6, I was married on June 15 which is 6 for the month and another 6 for the 1+5, yes 6 is my number.

2. On a scale of 1-10, with 1 being "not at all" and 10 being Carly Simon-worthy, how vain are you?
Probably a 7. I am really vain about the way my make up looks like, especially my eye make up. However, I can pass a mirror without looking at it so maybe only a 6.

3. Among these Irish stereotypes, with which do you identify most closely? Talkative, Proud, Inquisitive, Love to party, Hot-tempered
I am a hot-tempered partyer. Or at least I was. I don't party so much any more. I can be quite talkative, depending on whom I am talking to.

4. How lucky do you consider yourself?
Back when I used to gamble I was not very lucky at the casino. But not so unlucky either.
I won a drawing here in blog world.
But I am lucky in having a family that loves me no matter my faults. Sort of like God does.

5. What is the subject of your favorite post that you've written?
I think that this is a 3 part answer because there are 3 things that I especially like. I wrote a post about a dear, dear man who went missing last July, the day before his grand daughter's wedding. I didn't receive any comments on it but I felt good about writing about Pete.
I also wrote a poem, sort of. It rhymed anyway. I like that because it makes me smile. A poet I am not so this was fun.
And then I wrote a 3 part mini-story about love, aging, and death. It is special to me.

6. Describe March weather where you live in three words.
This year.....in like a lamb.

7. How apt are you at detecting blarney when you hear it? (Smooth talk, flattery)
I am quite good at detecting it. My uncle used to give it to me with a smile on his face so I knew right away. I learned to recognize it that way. I also learned how to speak blarney from my uncle.

8. How "green" are you, environmentally speaking?
I try to be, but I am not very successful at it. We don't have recycling where I live. The county used to have recycling sheds set up but people used them for things other than recyclables. The cost got to be too much. So all of our trash gets put into one container.

9. What is your favorite song this week?
Well thanks to someone whose name I won't mention I can't get Carly Simon and You're so Vain out of my head. Plus I heard it on the radio. So I guess for this week it is that song.

10. You are walking along and see a coin on the ground. What denomination does it have to be before you will stop to pick it up?
Find a penny pick it up, all the day you'll have good luck. Then you put it in your shoe. How's that?

11. Complete the sentence: "Every time I look outside my window ...."
I see less and less snow. Yea!!

12. What was the #1 song on the day you were born? See this site to find out.
All I can say is thanks, now I feel really old. I am so old that evidently music had not been invented. My year was not listed. No wonder my hair is so gray, and my crows feet have legs.

The saying I used to describe March is really...In like a Lion out like a lamb, In like a Lamb out like a Lion. I guess we will have a cold end of March.

Random Dozen - February 24, 2010

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Random Dozen
February 24, 2010

1. Have you ever fired a gun or shot a bow and arrow?
Yes, I have. I used to go deer hunting.

2. Do you know where your childhood best friends are?
No,I don't. My closest childhood friend (after a 20 yr friendship) accused me of stealing money from her aunt. End of friendship. The other friends were into things that I decided I needed to leave behind.

3. Do you usually arrive early, late, or on time?
Maybe 10 minutes early for doctor appointments. Otherwise on time.

4. Are you more of a New York or California type?
Definitely New York. I can't sit still. And when I do sit I have to be doing something.

5. Do you have a special ring tone?
Yes, it is Drift Away by Dobie Grey. Loved that song then and still do.

6. What is your favorite type of chip?
Plain Ripple.

7. Best comedy you've ever seen is ....
On television it would be "M.A.S.H.", or "Everybody Loves Raymond" for obvious reasons.. In a movie form it would be "Grumpy Old Men" probably because it was original. Maybe "One Fine Day" too.

8. Have you ever cut your own hair? To quote Dr. Phil, "How'd that work for ya?"
Yes, I have and do cut my own hair. My hair dresser says that I add texture to my hair and give her a challenge. I can't afford to go as often as I should for a hair cut so I resort to self-help.

9. If you were going to have an extreme makeover, would you rather it be about your house or your personal self?
Both need so much help that I can't give a definitive answer.

10. Are you allergic to anything?
No.

11. Why is it so hard to change?
Because (1) we get comfortable in the way we think or act.
(2) change means breaking an old habit and making a new one
(3)change is an adventure into the unknown and the unknown can be scary.

12. One last question dedicated to February love: CS Lewis said, "To love is to be vulnerable." Please share one example of that assertion or share any thought you'd like to about this topic.
To be vulnerable is to open your heart to someone when you don't know what their response will be to you. Vulnerability leaves yourself open to possible hurt. Children, the old, and animals are the most vulnerable.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - February 23, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
February 23, 2010

For Today… Monday, February 22, 2010

Outside my window...it was sunshine all the way. The air was crisp but oh so very fresh. It was a day that made my heart sing because the sun was so bright.

I am thinking... about my mom this week. It would be her birthday on the twenty-fifth. She always loved to celebrate her birthday. On her birthday she would smoke one cigarette and have a couple of glasses of wine. That was always part of her celebration. She has been gone since 1991 and I miss her still. She was such a large part of my life. I feel fortunate to have had her as my mom.

I am thankful for...my small belssings. Yesterday I needed to remind myself of all of the things I DO have in my life not of the things I DON'T have. One of the blessing I reminded myself of was God's love. I often forget that this is really the greatest blessing of all.

I am wearing...navy blue pants, a blue and white hoody, slippers and socks.

I am going...to the library and the pharmacy tomorrow. The doctor has given me two new medications to try and rid myself of pain especially my hands and thighs.

I am reading...I got a great deal on several books from the Grace Chapel series and am making my way through them. I love this series about the three sisters who set up a bed and breakfast in their family home. I am also reading a legal mystery and a Nancy Drew mystery.

On my mind...my aunt. She had a death in her family over the weekend. I worry that she is not coping well.

I am hoping...that the new meds make a huge difference in the way I feel each day. I don't like pain. I am also hoping to get to my aunt's in the next couple of weeks.

I am learning...patience when learning a new crochet pattern. It seems that every two rows I have to rip out because the pattern doesn't end correctly. Before I would have just given up but I am determined to see this pattern to the end.

Pondering these words...a bit of humor. "I am only as strong as the coffee I drink, the hairspray I use, and the friends I have."

From the kitchen…tuna casserole, green beans, and salad, tomorrow chili with cornbread, Thursday baked chicken with dressing, beets, and a salad.

Around the house... laundry, and dishes need to be done. I need to mix up some bread dough also. I haven't made bread since Christmas and my husband is groaning.

One of my favorite things...good friends.

A few plans for the rest of the week...trying to get the house clean, thinking ahead to Easter plans, and calling my aunt.

No picture to share this week.

Random Dozen - February 17, 2010

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Random Dozen
February 17, 2010

1. If you could compete in one Olympic event (not necessarily winter sports) what would it be?
If competing meant that I was good at this sport I would be a figure skater because it means I am graceful. In the summer Olympics I would be a swimmer because it would mean I knew how.

2. Do remember a specific Olympic moment from the past?
Not a specific one because they are all so special. I am terrible with names but I do remember when that young man's sister had died but he went on to compete anyway because he thought he would want her to.

3. Have you ever known anyone who competed in the Olympics?
I don't know this girl personally, but she was on the last winter Olympic women's hockey team. She comes from a little town of less than 2,000. I met her mom who of course was as proud as can be.

4. If everyday activities were Olympic-worthy, which activity would you have a gold medal in?
I could make gold in reading. I read many books at a time. I could also gold in salad making. I make fantastic salads.

5. Do you know anything about your ethnic heritage?
Yes. My cousin has traced our family back to the 1500's in Germany. And some of our family still lives in the same town.

6. Do you enjoy sleeping late?
Late for me would be 10 and no I do not. I think that the day is almost over and nothing has been accomplished.

7. Have you ever performed CPR on anyone? Do you know how? (Yes, that's two, I know. Whatevs.)
No I have not preformed CPR on anyone, but yes I do know how.

8. Name one country you'd like to visit and explain why.
Does our own country count? I would like to visit all of our states. I would like to learn more of our own history. After doing that then I would consider going to another country.

9. Have you ever fixed up a couple romantically?
Yes. It was horrible for all who watched.

10. What is the last book you read?
Nancy Drew Mystery of Phantom Hill. Just finished it.

11. Do you enjoy sleeping late? NO, YOU write the question! How's that for random??
Would you ever consider cosmetic surgery?
Yes. If I could afford to have my eyes done I would have them done in a split second. They have bags, and hang over onto my eyelashes, and the lids are very crapey

12. What is your favorite meal at your favorite restaurant?
My favorite meal at any restaurant is a big salad. I could eat salad everyday of the week, but it always tastes better when I don't have to fix it.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - February 15, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
February 15, 2010

Today is: February 16, 2010

Outside my window...the sun was shining all day. It looked warm outside, but it wasn't. The air had a chill that went right through to my bones. I don't know if that means it is going to get colder or not. I pray not.

I am thinking...about my sweet aunt. I meant to call her today and forgot. She had a son die 12 years ago this week and I need to reach out to her. She had another son die 1 1/2 years ago. I worry about her as these anniversaries come around.

I am thankful... for my brother's sense of humor. He sent me a long note without any punctuation. None! At the end he told me that I was now out of breath and that it was time to breath. Cracked me up right when I needed to.

I am wearing...navy blue pants, green fuzzy sweater, socks and slippers.

I am remembering...my cousins funeral 12 years ago. It was at his funeral that I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. I went into the funeral heart broken, unable to stop crying. I came out a new woman. My friend was sitting at the back of the church, and as soon as she saw me she knew what had taken place within my soul.

I am creating... a baby blanket to send to the hospital with the hat, socks, and mittens I have made. I decided that a blanket was needed to round off the outfit. If the hospital accepts these then I will make more sets. Or I will make whatever they have a need for. I finished a pet blanket for the local animal shelter last night.

I am going...to an afternoon movie this week with a friend. Before that we are going to go to a couple of thrift stores.

I am reading... The Bible in 90 Days (I just got my copy), Nancy Drew and the mystery of Phantom Hill, and one of the books of the Chapel Hill series.

I am hoping/praying..the weather turns warmer soon, that my brother finds a new driving partner quickly, my husband's shaking doesn't get any worse. Thses are not in any specific order.

I am hearing...the television. My husband is watching a tape from the original television series The Avengers with Dianna Rigg. He has almost the entire series on tape.

On my mind...my hearing test coming up on Friday. I don't know what to expect. I know that it is a painless test but still the unknown is taxing. I also am thinking about my son as always. He is never far from my mind. His birthday is in March and I have no idea what to get for him.

I am learning...more patience when I try a new crochet pattern. I just realized that I can't possibly know how to do it correctly the very first time.

Pondering these words... Good looks catch the eye, but a good personality catches the heart.

From the kitchen...last night tortillas with melted cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, salsa, guacomole, and sour cream. Tonight was pork ribs, sour kraut, potatoes, and carrots. Tomorrow hamburger hot dish. Thursday leftovers.

A few plans for the rest of the week...movie with a friend, trip to library, laundry, making bread dough, and a trip to the post office to mail the set to the hospital.

Around the house... too much clutter. We didn't get the snow plowed away from in the front of the shed door before it turned to ice. I still have Christmas decorations around because we can not get the shed door open. I never thought I would start to really dislike the decorations but I think that their eyes are following me around the room. I need the sun to melt the ice so I can put them away until next Christmas before next Christmas gets here.

One of my favorite things...is springtime. I love the earth coming back to life. I love to see in the distance a green haze on the trees. It signifies to me that the trees are greening up. It is a time of excitement for me.

From my picture book...my aunt and me.

Not Me Monday - Febraury 15, 2010

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Not Me Monday
February 15, 2010

I would never accuse my husband of purposely sabotaging my trip to the city. I would never say the words, "You purposely broke my car." Never, because I know better, even if he did seem really happy once he knew I was staying home. Nope not me.

I would never eat a dozen cookies at one time because I was pouting that my trip to the city was canceled. Nope not me.

I would never lie to a friend and tell her she was supposed to call me instead of me call her. I would never be too tired to call a friend. Nope not me.

I would never run out of suet for the birds. I would always have some extra on hand. I would never fry up bacon to put outside for them. Nope not me.

Sunday Stealing: The Clown's Meme 1 - 02/14/10

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Sunday Stealing
The Clown's Meme 1
February 14, 2010

1. How old will you be in five years?
59

2. Who did you spend at least two hours with today?
My husband

3. How tall are you?
5 feet 1/2 in

4. What do you look forward to most in the next six weeks?
Hopefully Springlike weather.

5. What’s the last movie you saw?
At the theater: Something about 911.I can't remember the name, but it was very good.
At home: Gorrilas in the Mist.

6. Who was the last person you called?
My son

7. Who was the last person to call you?
My son
8. What was the last text message you received?

9. Who was the last person to leave you a voicemail?
My friend

10. Do you prefer to call or text?
I don't know how to text.

11. What were you doing at 12am last night?
Watching the movie.

12. Are your parents married/separated/divorced?
Divorced and deceased

13. When is the last time you saw your mom?
1991

14. What color are your eyes?
Greenish blue

15. What time did you wake up today?
8AM

16. What are you wearing right now?
Jammys

17. What is your favorite christmas song?
What Child is This?

18. Where is your favorite place to be?
A bookstore

19. Where is your least favorite place to be?
Dentist

20. Where would you go if you could go anywhere?
Maine

21. Where do you think you’ll be in 10 years?
Probably right here.

22. Do you tan or burn?
Burn

23. What did you fear was going to get you at night as a child?
Whatever lived unde rmy bed.i never knew what IT was, just that something was under there.

24. What was the last thing that really made you laugh?
The little baby kitten, he was climbing all over my husband while he was fixing the car.

25. How many TVs do you have in your house?
2

26. How big is your bed?
Full

27. Do you have a laptop or desktop computer?
Laptop

29. What color are your sheets?
Maroon

30. How many pillows do you sleep with?
3

31. What is your favorite season?
Spring

32. What do you like about Autumn?
Cooler temperatures

33. What do you like about winter?
The stillness of the woods after a snowfall.

Six Word Saturday - February 13, 2010

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Six Word Saturday
February 13, 2010

No trip to city. Car broke.

Yep. I was supposed to go to the city to watch the Olympics but the car broke. Or maybe my husband sabotaged it. I don't know. He was putting in a new battery and something shorted out. I have no lights (serious), locks (very Serious), radio (minor), and no horn. The radio and horn I could go without but not lights or locks. So there are no Olympics in my future, but a trip to the dealership is.

10 on the 10TH - Febraury 10, 2010

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10 on the 10Th
February 10, 2010

Valentines being Sunday I am going to list (I hope) 10 romantic songs.

1. First Time Ever I Saw Your Face - Roberta Flack

2. Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton

3. Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers

4. I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston

5. Always On My Mind - Willie Nelson

6. I Can't Help Falling In Love With You - Elvis

7. When A Man Loves A Woman - Percy Sledge

8. I Got You Babe - Sonny & Cher

9. Unforgettable - Nat King Cole

10. You Are So Beautiful - Joe Cocker

Wheew I did it. Didn't think I would for a while there. I had to reach way back for some of these.

Random Dozen - Februaury 10, 2010

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Random Dozen
February 10, 2010

1. Are you pleasant when you're ill, or are you a grumpy, fussy patient?
I would say I am grumpy, because I just want to be left alone. My husband wants to take care of me and tell me which medications I need to take. I listen and groan inside. I know he is trying to be kind but I just want to scream. So, yeah grumpy.

2. When you find out that school is canceled (due to inclement weather) what is your gut reaction?
It doesn't affect me any more, but when my son got a snow day we loved it. We spent the day sleeping or coloring or baking. I liked the time together.

3. What is one domestic skill you wish you could improve?
Keeping my kitchen clean.

4. Do you decorate your home for Valentine's Day?
Nope.

5. What song is on your mind today?
I don't know the title. It is by Patty Lovelace. It is about a mom teaching her daughter how to say good-bye. That it is OK to hurt, and that it is OK to cry. Sad song but feel good too.

6. Do you prefer contemporary movies or classic?
I have all time favorties in both catagories.

7. How well do you "compartmentalize" your feelings? For example, how well can you put aside a really trying moment to deal with the immediate situation which is not related to the trying moment, e.g., putting aside a tiff with your spouse in order to finish wallpapering a room.
I am really very good at it. One time some one I was working with cut his finger off, and I was able to keep him calm while I walked him to the nurses office. After he was taken care of I passed out. I don't like blood. Another time my husband had hurt himself, but I didn't want to upset our son so I was just oh so cool. It wasn't until later that I went to pieces.

8. What is the first thing that attracted you to your spouse?
His chivalry. He treated me like a lady. After some really bad guys, he was just so perfect.

9. When was the last time your heart raced?
From physical exertion? When I brought the groceries in today. From romance? I can't remember.

10. What are your memories of Valentine's Day at school?
I went to Catholic school, we didn't do Valentines Day.

11. If you were going to receive candy for Valentine's Day, which would you prefer?
Dove or Bliss. Dark or regular. Chocolate is chocolate.

12. Red or pink?
Definitely red. Yes definitely.

Curious as a Cat Week Number 205 2-9-10

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Curious as a Cat
Number 205
February 0, 2010

1) Tell about a snowball fight you had.
I was in my twenties when this fight happened. It was late at night, at the end of a date. My boyfriend and I were sitting in the car saying our good night. As I got out of the car I reached up to the roof and grabbed a hand full of snow. I threw it in at him. He got quite the surprise. He then jumped out of the car, ran around it, and rolled me to the ground. And of course smeared my face with snow. We laughed. We got back in the car to catch our breath. He partially rolled down the window and threw in some snow. I did the same. As they say, the game was on. His car was so wet by the time I finally went in the house. I thought about him in the morning, having to get in it in dry clothes and drive to work. But I didn't lose any sleep because I was very wet myself.

2) Where is the best hiding place you know of?
If it is for gifts then I would have to say the front of a piano. Unknown to most people the front panel of a piano comes off. If the piano is played I wouldn't recommend this place, however, if like my piano it has sat silent for years it is the perfect hiding place. I didn't know of this place until I was an adult and my mother told me. She always hid our gifts in our piano.

3) What extracurricular activities did you do while at school?
Warming a chair in the Principal's office, skipping out of class, smoking, and sassing the hall monitor. Do those count as extracurricular activities?

4) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.

I am not sure why, but it reminds me of the monkeys hear no evil, see no evil, and hear no evil.

A Simple Woman's Daybook - February 8, 2010

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A Simple Woman's Daybook
February 8, 2010

For Today:

Outside my window...it was blustery cold today. A little bit of snow fell, just a dusting really. The cats loved to chase the snowflakes. They never seemed content with the one they were chasing and had to quickly turn to find a better one.

I am thinking... about the coming weekend. I am going to the city to spend time with my brother and SIL. I am also going to spend one day with my best friend. I will also watch the Olympics. YEA!

I am thankful...today in the mail I received the book Read the Bible in 90 days. I qualified for a scholarship to receive this book free of charge. I AM so very thankful. I am excited to start this new journey.

I am wearing...black pants, moss green sweater, pinkish turtleneck, socks and slippers.

I am going...as mentioned to the city, grocery chopping for my husband's food while I am gone, chiropractor and to the book store this week all before Friday.

On my mind...the smell of burnt leaves in my car. Yes, again. I fear that the mice have moved in again. I hope I was imagining it today. I don't have another $500.00 to get the car fixed again.

Pondering these words... Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1
I love this sentence. It sums up all that there is to say about God's love for us.

From the kitchen… Pork roast, mashed potatoes, and green beans for dinner tonight. Tomorrow chicken wings and salad. The rest of the week is up for grabs so far. I am going to make a dessert to take with me to the city. A chocolate something.

Around the house... I am considering hiring a bulldozer to come and push the house over. It seems easier than trying to clean it all. It looks like a bomb went off. If thieves came here they would not rob us because they would think we had already been robbed.

One of my favorite things...chocolate chip cookies with ice cold milk. Warms the heart this does.

I am working on...a baby blanket to send with the hat set I finished. I will send them all to the local hospital.

No photos to share this week.

Heads or Tails Tuesday _February 3, 2010

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Heads or Tails Tuesday
February 3, 2010

It is a Tails week asking us to make a list of 3.

Three businesses I would like to own:

1. A bookstore

2. A yarn store

3. A yarn store with used books too.

Random Dozen _ February 3, 2010

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Random Dozen
February 3, 2010

1. Do you use the labels various charities send you as “free gifts?”
Guilty. But, I figure I didn't ask them to send them to me and they always say that the labels are a gift. I would be at fault if I didn't use them.

2. What is your favorite time of day (or night) for skywatching?
That's a tough one. However, I think it has to be the night sky. I have memories of time with my son looking at the night sky. It was a rule in our house that if something exciting was supposed to happen during the night in the sky we would either stay up late or set the alarm to wake us up to watch it. We watched Halle's comet go by, many Northern Lights, and I remember another comet but can't remember the name. After he started to work/date he was under orders to wake me if something were taking place while I slept. Even now he will call me to keep me informed.
So yes, it would be the night sky. Sorry about the length of my answer.

3. What is the most adventurous you've ever been with trying a new food? (Keep it G-rated please)
I had squid. I tried it deep-fried with a light batter, sauteed with onion,pickled, and raw. I have to say I will never eat it again.

4. Have you ever heard a rock sing? (Trust me, there's a reason for this one!)
I believe I have. At a river, after a rain the rocks along the shore sing a song. Also rocks that are hot sing.

5. If you could learn a language you don't presently speak, what would it be?
I'd like to learn American Sign Language. I think I could learn that language and put it to good use.

6. Al Capone's tombstone read, “My Jesus, Mercy.” If you could write your own epitaph, what would it say?
"She loved life and the Lord."

7. If you were a famous musician who was known by one name, like “Cher,” “Sting,” or “Jewel,” what would it be? It doesn’t have to be your first name, but it can be, if you’d like.
TAM, because those are my initials. I like that my initials are also a word. A word that is a hat and I adore hats.

8. Have you ever been inordinately “into” a television show?
In recent years it was "The West Wing" but I could always record it to view later. In the 70s it was "M.A.S.H." the world stopped spinning when that show was on. In the 80s it was "Dallas", a bunch of us would be out together and leave where ever we were, race to a home , watch the show, and then go back out for our evening.

9. When you sneeze, do you go big, or do you do that weird “heenh!” sound that makes people think you’re going to blow your brains out? Any other variation we should know about?
I have a loud a-chuw with the w sound going up on the scale. Someone I had not seen in a few years heard a sneeze come from a different aisle in a store. He knew it was me just by the sound.

10. Do you still read an actual newspaper that you hold in your hands, or do you get your news elsewhere?
I do a little bit of both. I read our local paper but find it lacking. Lacking in even local events. It is a biased paper and I get frustrated. I read online the national news.

11. Are you a good speller?
I think I am. The problem with spelling online is a person just doesn't take the time to make corrections. And sometimes the correct spelling of a word doesn't look right and then I misspell it. Then that doesn't look right so I don't know what to do. I usually substitute a different word.

12. At what time each day do you start thinking about Lost lunch?
I don't eat lunch.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - February 1, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
February 1, 2010

For today:

Outside my window...today was full of sunshine and blue skies. The birds were out in full force feeding at the feeders.

I am thinking...about the cardinals call I heard yesterday. In the twenty years that we have lived here I have only seen 1 cardinal. I keep hoping to see and hear them more often. Hearing one yesterday renewed that hope.

I am thankful for... my son who knew how to fix my computer. Last week it was infected with a vicious virus. I knew who to call. And now my computer is almost as good as new.

I am wearing...blue pants, blue sweater, turtleneck with yellow flowers, socks, and of course slippers.

I am remembering...my dad. For some reason he has been on mind a lot today. I miss him.

I am going...for a haircut this week, to the city with a friend, and grocery shopping tomorrow.

I am currently reading..."Mystic Lake" by Kristin Hannah and a Nancy Drew Mystery.

I am hoping... to get a hat, mitts, and booties for the hospital in the mail.

On my mind...our propane tank. I called today to remind the propane company to come out and give us a fill. Last night we were at 6%. They did not show up today with gas. I hope we make it through the night.

Noticing that...my feet are really really cold. I need my wool socks tonight.

Pondering these words... No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us. 1John 4:12
Perfect love is a huge thing to contemplate. I always thought the only perfect love was God's, but this says that God's love through me is perfect. Amazing. I am filled with wonderment.

From the kitchen...tonight we had grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup. Tomorrow chicken and rice. Wednesday mock chow mein.

Around the house... it is quiet. The cats a resting up for a night of frolicking.

One of my favorite things~discovering a new author. Kristin Hannah is new to me. So far the book I am reading is so so good. Another favorite is finding a new to me quote from Scripture.

Curious as a Cat - February 1, 2010

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Curious as a Cat
February 1, 2010

1) Did you wear hand-me-downs as a kid?
No. I was the oldest and the only girl. No one to pass clothes to me.

2) If you were to have the voice of any media personality, whose would you choose?
I would like Barbra Streisand's voice. She can really sing and her speaking voice is great also.

3) Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth?
Yes. I am strange but I actually like bad dreams. It is like watching a horror movie or reading a scary book. Plus, I know that I will wake up so nothing really bad can happen.

4) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_fiuxRK_3neI/SmUN3hU9hgI/AAAAAAAABus/t0Yuv2kRikY/s1600-h/Skye+at+sunrise.jpg

Well I can't get the picture to come up here. However, I think it is a picture of Roswell NM. I think I can see in the rays the space craft that so many people believe landed there. I don't personally believe that one did land but in this picture I can see one.

Nancy Drew Readings for January 2010

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I am going to try and read all 54 Nancy Drew books in 2010. The books that have the yellow hard covers. These are the books of my youth.
They were my best friends. After reading 4 of these favorite books in January I remember why I loved them so much. I have re-read these books many times but, I think it has been about 5 years since the last time.
I don't remember the endings. The story lines are unsophisticated, but then so were we when I was 13 and 14.
The books I read in January are

Book #1 The Secret of the Old Clock
Book #2 The Hidden Staircase
Book #3 The Bungalow Mystery
Book #18 The Mystery of the Moss Covered Mansion

I may not read the books in order. I know that I have them all in my possession, however, I am having difficulty finding them. Strange I say.

Friday Fill-Ins - January 29, 2010

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Friday Fill-Ins
January 29, 2010

1. Wouldn't it be easy if there were no evil in the world.

2. Warm Spring air will feel better than ever!

3. I love the taste of a really good cup of fresh coffee (Caraboo).

4. The cats are in the living room.

5. The first thing we're going to do when Spring comes is to plant a garden of flowers. .

6. Yesterday I heard drip, drip, drip; and saw that the front window was leaking from the outside in. This is not a good thing.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to doing exactly what I am doing, tomorrow my plans include cleaning out a closet that has been bugging me and Sunday, I want to finish up a baby cap and booties set for the local hospital._

Random Dozen _ January 27, 2010

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Random Dozen
January 27, 2010

1. How good are you at delaying gratification?
Not very. If I want it, I want it now. Not later. Like Spring.

2. Maybe a marshmallow wouldn't be too difficult a temptation for you. What food (or anything else) would be most tempting?
Oh I would say that putting chocolate in front of me would be a test. Or ice cream.

3. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being saintly) how patient are you?
About a 3 - 5. Not so much.

4. Have you ever waited for something in life only to be disappointed upon realization of the goal/object/etc.?
I waited and waited what seemed forever to be 21 and then to be 30. I don't know what the big deal was for either age. Forty on the other hand .... and then there was 50...

5. Are you a person who takes shortcuts?
Shortcuts as in driving? Yes I do. Shortcuts for cooking? Of course. Shortcuts for life? There are none.

6. Which line is hardest to wait in?
As impatient as I am, I am really good at waiting in line. I just talk to people around me or make mental lists. But if I must state a line it would be in stopped traffic.

7. Did you wait to discover the gender of your unborn child until its birth?
He was not facing the correct way to tell, but I knew anyway. I just did.

8. Are you more patient with children or the elderly?
Neither really. If the truth be told I don't much care for kids. Except mine, and those who are close to me. But when kids are young I don't want to be around them. As for the elderly I am getting better at being patient with them. My aunt is so sweet and has helped me with that a lot and my husband is what you would call elderly and he is difficult but I have to try with him.

9. Did you ever sneak a peek at a present?
As a kid I one time looked at all the Christmas gifts. It really wrecked the Christmas. My mom found a new hiding place the following year.

10. What is the longest you've ever waited for anything?
Wait? You mean I am supposed to wait? Whyyyyy?

11. Who has more patience, you or your significant other?
Scary as it is I have more patience.

12. Which of the following songs about waiting is your pick for the best? (OK, you may substitute another, if you like.)

A) Anticipation by Carly Simon
B) The Waiting by Tom Petty
C) Right Here Waiting for You by Richard Marx
D) Wait for Me by Rebecca St. James

I only recognize the one by Carly Simon so I guess that one. But I don't know for sure.

What's on Your Nightstand - January 2010

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What's on Your Nightstand?
January 2010

I have onmy nightstand:

A stack of Nancy Drew mysteries
The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf
Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah
On Mystic Lake by Kristin Hannah
A stack of cozy Mysteries.

I used to just pick up a book and read the back to see if it was a book I might like. Lately I have been reading reviews, then looking the book up on Amazon for more opinions, and then deciding. My must read list is growing faster than I can read.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - January 25, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
January 25, 2010

FOR TODAY:

Outside my window...it has been snowing and blowing. We have had nasty weather since last Thursday. Rain that day. The ice built up so fast on my windshield I had to stop to scrape it off. I have been in the house since. It rained/iced until yesterday when the snow started. The wind is howling hard tonight.

I am thinking...that if I can get a month's worth of menus planned I will save so much money next month when I do our shopping.

I am thankful for... a good working furnace on this cold windy night.

I am wearing...brown pants, lilac colored sweater, wool socks, and of course slippers.

I am remembering...that I need to remember to make a chiropractor appointment tomorrow and to call the insurance company.

I am going...to finish up a set of preemie hat, mitts, and booties to mail off this week.

I am currently reading...The Familiar Stranger. It is such a good book.I find it hard to stop reading.

I am hoping..to visit my aunt in February. I have to check the budget first.

On my mind...the argument I had with my husband today.

Noticing that...my computer desk really needs a good cleaning. Maybe tomorrow.

Pondering these words...To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul; in you I trust, O my God.Psalm 25:1-2

From the kitchen...tonight we had chicken burritos. Tomorrow a pork roast with potatoes and carrots.

Around the house... is a huge mess. Both of us a sorting through and throwing things away. You always have to make a bigger mess in order to make sense of the senseless.

One of my favorite things... and...From my picture journal..

Not in Use

2010-01-23T23:13:00.000-08:00

I have never used my blog as a place to unload my feelings or current struggles. But today I am struggling and don't have an outlet for my feelings.

I am a mother of a 25 year old wonderful young man. He called me yesterday in tears. He was crying so hard I could not understand what he was telling me. I first had to calm him some so the words could come out of his mouth.

Between tears and large gulps of air I learned that his favorite teacher had died. This teacher touched so many young lives. (There is a memory page for him on Facebook if you are interested. His name was Brian Flagsted.)

I talked to my son about these memories. I told him it was OK to mourn. That it was OK to cry. I gave him comfort the only way I knew how. But I feel that I have somehow failed him.

I asked him if he was going to the funeral. He said he didn't think he could handle it. I told him it would be good for him to go and be with people he knew that were feeling the same loss that he was. He told me yesterday that he would think about it.
Today he told he was not going to go. I tried to talk to him about it and give him the reason again. I finally left it alone.

I am a mother whose heart is aching for her son. I want so much to help him. But at the same time I know that because he is an adult he has to make his own decisions. My heart still aches.

I am afraid he will regret not going. And regrets are something you can never get rid of, they are always with you.

I am rambling here. I am not even making very coherent sentences and I really hate that. I think my grammar might be off and oh forget about punctuation.

But I am really glad to have this as a place to pour my heart out. I have always found solace in writing. I am hoping to find it again.

I was planning on starting my short story yesterday. I could not. I couldn't again tonight. The story I am going to write is a happy story written from the perspective of a happy woman. Tonight I am not that woman.
My heart is aching for my son. Am I over reacting to his hurt? I don't know.

2010-01-21T19:19:00.001-08:00

Weekend Writers Retreat
January 22, 2010

The Porch

2nd Cup of Coffee - January 20, 2010

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2nd Cup of Coffee
January 20, 2010

1. If you physically lock in one age for yourself, which would you choose and why?
I would be 25. I was having the time of my life at 25. I was still being carded at 25, for tobacco and drinks. I looked good, I was happy.

2. What is the best dish that you cook or bake (your piece de resistance?)
I guess it would have to be my potato salad. I don't like potato salad but my family is always asking me to make it so it must be good. I make a really good meat loaf too.

3. When you feel blue, what is one strategy you use to help yourself back to normal?
I go catalog shopping. With a catalog you can order anything you care to without worrying about the cost. I usually fill out the order form and then throw the catalog out. I also look online for new catalogs. I fix my hair and put on a full face of make-up.

4. When was the last time you danced in public?
The last time I was in the city at my friends house. We were listening to music in Wal-Mart and we just started to dance in the aisle. It was so spontaneous and so much fun. Her daughter saw us, shook her head, and walked away. We laughed right out loud then.

5. Do you consider yourself a realist or dreamer?
Just a second while I clean my rose colored glasses and get the sand out of my eyes. I am a huge dreamer. I like my life happy and refuse to see the negativity in it.

6. As a parent, what is one thing that you have done well?
I taught my son how to be respectful of all people. Even those people that you don't happen to like very much.

7. Which is your favorite character on the Andy Griffith show?
That would be Opie. My son looked just like him when he (my son) was younger. Opie is so cute and makes me all squishy inside. I could just hug the stuffing out of him. I try to do that to my son too.

8. On a scale of 1-10, how much do you know about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.?
Maybe between a 4 and a 6. But not 5 really just somewhere in there.

9. What is your #1 driving pet peeve?
Tailgaters. Not only are they irritating but dangerous. I hate it when I am in the right lane on the freeway and they creep up behind me. It's like where am I supposed to go? If they want to drive faster they should be in the fast lane. Oh don't get me started.

10. Which color best represents your mood today? Care to elaborate?
I am alert. I am lacking energy. I am in good spirits. I feel like I have had too much coffee but haven't. What color it that?

11. If your spouse were an animal, which would he/she be?
If it is the middle of the night I would say a hog because he hogs the bed.

12. What activity takes up the bulk of your time on an average day?
Reading or needlework.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - January 18, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
January 18, 2010

For today:

Outside my window...it was a beautiful sunshiny day. Not a cloud to be seen. It was in the middle 30s. It was glorious.

I am thinking... of the project I am starting tomorrow. I picked up a wall paper book at the thrift store last week. In it I am going to paste all of the recipes that I have collected. That way they will all be in one place. A huge project. After that comes a book for all of the craft patterns I have collected.

I am thankful for... the life that God has given me. Sometimes I forget to be grateful. Sometimes I am stingy in my prayers. I don't give thanks where thanks are due. But God has provided for me wonderfully and I need to acknowledge that.

I am wearing...blue pants, gray turtleneck, greenish blue sweatshirt, socks and slippers.

I am remembering... MLK. I wonder what he thinks of having a day set aside especially for him. He probably feels unworthy of such a tribute. But not many other men deserve it as much as him.

I am going... to the doctor later in the week. It is time for the annual physical. I know she is going to want to schedule the dreaded colonoscopy test. After that I am grocery shopping and going to the food coop. And I am going to schedule a hearing test for myself. Too many loud concerts I think. On the weekend a visit to the used book store. And I need to buy more baby yarn.

I am currently reading..."A Woman's High Calling" by Elizabeth George, I am starting to read "Familiar Stranger" by Christina Berry.

I am hoping...that the nice weather hold for the week. Or maybe the month, or the rest of the winter season. My husband thinks it is our Indian Summer.

On my mind...I am trying to write the first part of a story in my head. I wonder if I can still do that. I used to right whole papers in my head before ever putting them to paper. I want to be able to post the first installment of the story by Friday.

Noticing that...God works miracles even in the face of disaster. I just heard of a newborn baby being found alive in Haiti.

Pondering these words..."Love makes the world go round" It becomes so apparent that we are all in this world together when tragedy strikes. People from all over hurry to help as best they can. That is love for one another.

From the kitchen...new chicken recipe for dinner tonight. Was so very good. Plus potatoes and green beans.

Around the house...still Christmas decorations. I am slowly getting them put away.

One of my favorite things...music.

From my picture journal...

He needs to have is own pillow on the couch. But he isn't spoiled.

Crocheted baby socks. I took an adult pattern and made it smaller.

Carry on Tuesday #35 - January 14, 2010

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Carry on Tuesday
January 14, 2010

"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times."

They met on a bright summer afternoon.
At a wedding.
Love was all around.
They got caught in love's grasp.

They dated.
They played.
They teased.
They married.
They loved.

It was the best of times.

Life was hard.
They fought.
They made up.
They played.
They loved.

It was the best of times.

They grew older.
The fighting stopped.
The playing stopped.
The loving continued.

It was the best of times.

They needed glasses to see.
They needed aid to hear.
He needed help to eat.
She was the help.
The loving continued.

It was the best of times.

He forgot her name.
He forgot his name.
He forgot how to talk.
He forgot how to love.

It was the worst of times.

Random Dozen _ January 13, 2010

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Random Dozen
January 13, 2010

1. When was the last time you craved a food--what was it, and did you crave?
I think it was last week and I craved Chinese food. Or maybe it was chocolate.Or maybe it was pizza. Those are the 3 things I crave almost constantly.

2. M & M's or Skittles?
Always M & M's. And not peanut ones. I have never even tasted a Skittles.

3. Have you ever read the Bible completely through?
I am ashamed to say no I have not. Every year I try to do just that but some where a long the line I get side tracked. I pick up again but to say cover to cover no I have not.

4. How long does it take you to really wake up in the morning?
Te older I get the longer it takes. I think I am fully awake in about 45 minutes. I use to jump out of bed and be ready to start my day. Sadly, that is no longer true.

5. Have you ever been on a cruise? If not, would you like to?
No, I have never been on a cruise. I would like to take a cruise to Alaska. It was my mom's dream to do that, but she died before realizing that dream. I would like to do it for her.

6. Who is your favorite actress?
Kathryn Hepburn without a doubt.

7. ______ is something that I will just never understand.
Algebra. I don't get it. I have taken it so many times and failed each time. Now my eyes go crossed just at the thought of it. I was so lucky that my son was a natural math whiz is school and didn't require mom's help.

8. How much of a technology junkie are you?
I'm not sure I even understand the question. As long as my computer works and I can receive and send calls on my cell phone I am happy.

9. Do you enjoy selecting greeting cards for people, or is it more of a cultural "have to" for you?
I love to shop for cards. I spend an inordinate amount of time picking just the right card. Then sometimes I have to give more than one because I can not narrow it down to just one. Sometimes I pick a card up ahead of time only to lose it in the mess that is my house so I get to go card shopping again.

10. When was the last time you got a new style/haircut?
I am in the process of a new do right now. I told my hairdresser to do whatever she wanted and now it is in the middle of a grow out to become what I don't know.

11. What do you enjoy shopping for most?
Bargains. Or shoes and purses. Or clothes. Or books. Lots of books.

12. What's the last thing you think of before you leave the house?
How good it feels to be getting away for a few hours.

The Simple Woman's Dayboook - January 11, 2010

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The Simple Woman's Daybook
January 11, 2010

For Today:

Outside my window... Beautiful sunshine. Blue skies. Cold wind but that's OK because the temperature is warming for our January thaw that we get in Minnesota.

I am thinking... how nice yesterday was. We had Christmas with son and family. It was such a good day. Warmed my heart.

I am thankful for...nature. Specifically the woods I live in. See picture below.

I am wearing...pink sweater, black sweats, pink socks, and slippers.

I am remembering...how nicely the 2 children got along yesterday. Not at all like my brother and me when we were their ages.

I am going...with a friend on Wednesday to hit the thrift stores along a 50 mile line, and stop for lunch. Grocery shopping on Thursday, after we make up menu meals for the coming month.

I am currently reading...Nancy Drew Mystery of the Hidden Staircase. This is #2 in the series. I am going to re-read the entire series again this year.

I am hoping... I can get motivated to start an exercise program and to change my eating habits.

On my mind...long distance friends that I owe letters to. I am terribly behind in my correspondence.

Noticing that...it is staying light outside later in the day. It is not totally dark at 5:00 PM, almost but not totally. This is a good thing.

Pondering these words... I am drawing a blank. I guess none have made an impression on me today. This is NOT a good thing.

From the kitchen... leftovers from yesterday. Ham, potato salad, rolls, Swedish rice, green salad. Later in the week bean soup from the ham bone.

Around the house...a lot of work to do. Now that Christmas is officially over it is time to put away all thing Christmas. I love to put everything out but dread putting it away. Would anyone think I was strange if I left it all out til next year?

One of my favorite things...doing embroidery on a pretty spring tablecloth on a winter afternoon.

From my picture journal...

Ten on the Tenth - January 10, 2010

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Ten on the 10TH
January 10, 2010

10 Life Lessons?
Maybe.

1. The 10TH of the month comes around very quickly, and when you are the least prepared.

2. It will snow when the weather conditions are correct, not necessarily when the weather man says.

3. Cats are not afraid of heights. As I have posted before one of ours climbs to the top of the bird feeder. Now he has taught 3 of the others to do the same. The bird feeder is about 7 feet above the ground.

4. On January 10Th at 7 in the morning it is still dark outside.

5. Apple pie, warmed, served with cinnamon ice cream is a very good dessert.

6. God will always have an answer to our prayers. It is just that sometimes the answer is NO.

7. It is hard to put mascara on when A.)you are sweaty, AND B.) your hand is shaking.

8. When a tree falls in the woods and no one around they really do make a noise.

9. Snowmobiles going the wrong way down the road at night, with their headlights on make drivers confused. This could be dangerous.

10. I am glad that this is ten on the tenth and not twelve on the tenth.

Six Word Saturday - January 9, 2010

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Six Word Saturday
January 9, 2010

Second Christmas tomorrow. I am ready!

Friday's Fave Five - January 8, 2010

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Friday's Fave Five
January 8, 2010

My week of 5 favorites.

1. A good chiropractor. I have the best chiropractor in the world. He puts me all back in order so I can stand up straight. He fixes my neck so I can hold it up. He gives me heck when it is obvious that I have been doing something that I have been warmed not to do. He is a good guy.

2. Screwball cats. One of the feral cats is just a joy to watch his antics. He loves to sit on top of the bird feeder and watch the birds on the ground. He reminds me of Snoopy pretending to be a vulture. He sat on the top yesterday in a blinding snow until his gray coat was totally white. Then and only then did he jump down. Even the birds had left by then.

3. Getting ready for Christmas this Sunday with my son and his family. I feel more relaxed this time than I did for the real Christmas. I don't know why that it is but I really am enjoying it. I don't feel panicked or overwhelmed. Maybe this means I will actually enjoy the day.

4. Starting a new embroidery project. I just got my new kits in the mail today. Right away I put aside the socks I was crocheting and started to embroider. I am making a spring tablecloth. It is sunny.

5. Good neighbors. I went to town yesterday and got all of my groceries for Sunday. All except the celery for the potato salad. You can't have potato salad without celery. I called my neighbor and she has celery for me. It saved me a trip to town (22 miles one way) just to buy celery.

ABC Wednesday Rd 5 - January 6, 2010

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ABC Wednesday
January 6, 2010

Y

Spring is Yellow.

Yellow is Daffodils and Jonquils.

But because I am blog illiterate and can't make the upload thing work I can't show any pictures.

Random Dozen - January 6, 2010

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Random Dozen
January 6, 2010

1. On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being a cranky-baby-hissy-fitter, how much of a complainer are you?

I guess it would depend on what I am talking about and to whom. I don't complain about the things that I can not change. I mean why bother? But don't get me started about things that I think are totally wrong and that are within my power to change. I am a hissy fitter complainer then.

2. When someone else is talking, do you listen, or are you thinking about what you're going to say in response?

Again, it would depend. If the person has been droning on for a while I might be trying to balance my check book in my head. If it is a friend I am listening intently. If it is a friend who has been going on for a while I am wondering when it will be my turn to talk.

3. I just deleted 1062 messages from my email account. Do you have any plans for a clean sweep this month--of anything?

Next week I am going to go through the pantry shelves. It scares me that I can't remember the last time I did that. I think it has been a couple of years. After that I am tackling the linen closet. It has become a catch-all place. Then comes my computer area. My word for the year is organization.

4. Tell us about your perfume. Was it a gift? What does it remind you of? Do you have a signature scent?

I was using Cool Waters but have just found Dancing Water by Bath and Body Works. It smells just like the first but at a fraction of the price. I like it because it has a nice clean fresh scent. I had also tried Sensual Amber by BBW but my son asked me not to wear it because his girlfriend did. I didn't mind the change at all.

5. What is your best organizing tip for the new year?

Purge. This is not my original idea but it really does work. Use the three second rule. You either have to decide to keep it, throw it, or donate it in the first three seconds of touching an item. Take bags or boxes to the area where you are purging so they are handy. Be brutal. It is amazing how much stuff can actually be
thrown out if you don't give yourself any leeway.

6. What is your favorite comic strip?

I don't get to read a comic strip in a paper too often but when I do I head right for Peanuts and Family Circle.

7. Do you sleep with a fluffy or flat pillow?

A flat hard pillow, cold only.

8. What color is your kitchen? Why did you choose that color?
I didn't choose my colors, they chose me. I have not had a kitchen re-do since we bought the house in 1989. I still have an avacado green stove. It is an ugly kitchen.

9. What’s the most interesting bumper sticker you’ve seen?

There are two of them.
ET phone home. Your mom is looking for you.
AND one I made myself when my state was banning public cigarette smoking. I don't believe it is the governments place to dictate (yes I said it) what a private business owner may or may not allow in their establishment. It said:
Legalize Cigarette Smoking.

10. Do you prefer an expensive writing tool or whatever is lying around? (Are you a Montblanc or a Papermate?)

If I could afford a Montblanc I would probably need that kind. I am picky about what I use to write with. My hands cramp up so easily that I often use 2 pens just to write my name. So when I can find a pen that allows me to use it without a cramp I keep it forever or until it runs out of ink. I really like the kind that have a little cushion at the end.

11. What chore doesn’t feel like a chore – you just enjoy it (at least most of the time)?

I really like to vacuum and to dust. When I vacuum I can immediately see the results of my good job. And when I dust I can handle my treasured items and remember when and where I got them.

12. If your parents often repeated themselves, what is something one of them said more than once?

"If they jumped off a bridge would you too?" My mom said this every time I said someone else got to do something she had said no to. And when I said, "Well her mom said she could." My mom would reply, "I'm not her mom."
The first time I said those words to my son I had to look behind myself to see if my mom was there because I could not believe that they had come out of my mouth.